This guy dated me for a week, then broke it off unexpectedly without giving me a reason why. Well just to show that it didn't hurt my feelings, we decided to be friends but then again, I still get a feeling for him. Well a week or so after he broke it off we were talking online. I ask him what is on his mind, he says that he was just thinking about the fun that we had together, which is why he didnt answer my questions much. I asked him what he meant by that and he said that he didn't know. Later on, in another conversation, like 2 days later, I ask him the same ? and he says that he was thinking about me. I asked him why and he said "it could be because i am talking to you, you're pretty, many reasons." Not only that, he leaves me confused when we have conversations. We start off arguing about him not wanting a relationship like he said he wanted with me before. But then, we start having a normal conversation. What is really going on here? What should I do, play hard to get?
2007-01-16 05:06:31 · 8 answers · asked by To Remain Anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's just not that into you. He might not mind hanging out with you when he has nothing better to do, but he's not romantically interested in you. Wasn't that obvious when he stopped seeing you after only a week?
Do you really want this guy? I mean, it sounds like he doesn't know his head from his behind, and can't seem to give you a firm answer on how he feels about you. Why are you playing dumb here? Move on!
2007-01-16 05:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
seriously, he broke up w/ you for a reason...though it sucks.he wants to play the field. the thing is, if a guys wants more w/ you, he welcomes the "relationship talk", but if he doesnt, he avoids it as much as he can, and is more relaxed when you're talking about things other than your relationship together. Now this is what you should do: completly flip the script on him. you have to maintain a very aloof attitude despite what he says....when u think you want to give him a chance again....let HIS actions guide you....not words.good luck
2007-01-16 13:14:59 · answer #2 · answered by Johnnie's cash🌴🌙☂✈ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks to me like this guy is pretty fickle and can't explain or understand his own feelings. While you have the option of waiting around while he tries to figure them out, it would probably be a waste of your time, and I'm sure that you've got better things to do than wait around for some fool who can't even be honest with himself. So my advice for you is to tell him that if he can't make up his mind, than your moving on. And mean it. And as for "playing hard to get," don't even bother - find a guy that's actually worth what you have to offer.
Good luck!!!
2007-01-16 15:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ misschels ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is stringing you along. It appears to me he is trying to see if he can use you as a "safety net" per se. Trying to go after what he really wants, but wants to know if you will be there waiting if that falls through. Not really a good situation to be in. If he does get who he really wants to be with, he will drop you in a heartbeat. If not he will continue to string you along until he finds someone else he really wants. Basically, like I think your fearing he is playing you as just someone to keep in reserve.
2007-01-16 13:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by Colias 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if your too eager willingness to have a serious relationship scared him. Just back off a bit, just enjoy his company and date others as well.
2007-01-16 13:14:50 · answer #5 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men always want what they cannot have...
This guy sounds like a jerk though...I think I would spend my time and energy with someone worth my investment..this guy is a bad deal...he's immature and obviously self-centered...go find a REAL man...
2007-01-16 13:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by Toots 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's just being a playa and toying with your emotions from the sound of it. I wouldn't fall for it he might just end up hurting you again and you don't deserve that.
2007-01-16 13:14:38 · answer #7 · answered by Baby girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on beforer you get in to deep
2007-01-16 13:12:10 · answer #8 · answered by kf17 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋