well my two guy friends that I've known like forever hate me because I am friends with this boy that they don't like. They say that he is racist and they want to beat him and all this stuff, just stupid boy stuff. And they don't want me to be friends with him or talk to him for all these dumb reasons, soo now they won't talk to me and they are really mean to me at school and they make things very bad for me ( the one day I got soo upset I cried which I really never do) and I know he's not racist or he wouldn't be talking to me and stuff. I hate them hating me cuz they are supposed to be my real friends cuz I grew up with the one boy and did everything together. I really want my friends back but I also still want to be friends with this kid and I can't take them being sooo mean anymore. I really don't know why they care who Im friends with, they never cared before. So what should I do?
2007-01-16 05:03:48 · 4 answers · asked by chicken wing 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They wouldn't be true friends if they can't accept who YOU want to be friends with, correct?
If you really want to be friends with both of them you need to talk to your past friends and tell them that they aren't being true friends by not accepting you for the fact that you want other friends, despite if they don't like them or not. it's not like you personally did anything to your ex-friends.
you should go up to them and tell them how you feel.
if they still blow you off and act rude, you don't need to be friends with people like that.
that is so immature to act like that.
you don't need friends like that, unless they are willing to act differently.
2007-01-16 05:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by twylatimestwo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your two guy friends were really your friends they wouldn't have acted like that. Even if they think you are making a bad decision they should still stick by your side. It would have been better for them just to keep trying to tell you they think he's bad, rather than saying mean things to you and making you cry. That's not something a friend would do. Maybe they're jealous and that's why they care so much that you're friends with him. But I'd check out the new guy and make sure he really is what you think he is. Maybe your guy friends are right and they are trying to protect you. The first thing I would do is try and talk to them and see why they really don't like him. If they don't give you a reasonable answer, then I'd tell them I'm disappointed in them because they haven't been acting like good friends should. good luck though!
2007-01-16 05:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went by way of the identical factor with a particularly near pal of mine.Out of the complete time we have been peers she handiest known as me like four occasions compaired to the eighty thousand occasions i known as her.I attempted to speak to her approximately it however that didn't paintings.Eventually i gave up on it and stopped calling her.We electronic mail from time to time however thats all.If i have been you identity speak to her simply see the way it is going.But in all these occasions it most likely by no means is going away.If speakme to her dosent paintings,then i dont understand what to let you know.I could attempt to overlook approximately it however thats simply me.Do what feels correct.I desire the quality for ya and i am hoping yall could make it by way of this.Good good fortune.
2016-09-08 00:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry they are not good friends to you --- ignore them is probably the best idea --- best wishes
2007-01-16 05:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋