well, ive got the girl that i like. but now i cant see her because my dad is mad at me and he wont let me do anything, and i mean anything! and know, whenever a friend of mine talks about me at youth group, the girl that i like starts to cry and i dont know what to tell her! will someone please help me?
2007-01-16 05:02:48 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell her ur dad is heterosexually challenged and wont let you do anything any more but you still love her
2007-01-16 05:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Primetime 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You didn't say what you got into trouble for. As long as you are underage and living under dad's roof, you follow dad's rules. So take your punishment like a big boy should. This shows you are maturing in the manner he is hoping for and showing responsibility for you own actions as well. Tell your friend that informed you of your girl being upset to the point of tears, to please relay message from you to her. Then you can send consoling messages and messages of encouragement that soon you will be together again. I hope this helps you out. Believe me, I understand what you are going through. I raised 3 boys of my own. It may not seem fair to you right now. But, one of these days you might have boys of your own, then you will understand a little more. In the meantime, buckle up and fly right :) Good luck.
2007-01-16 13:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by Vida 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dad won't let you to even go to youth group? Wow, you must have been a bad bad boy. Do some extra chores around the house and get back in your dad's good graces. Then you can see the girl.
2007-01-16 13:07:44 · answer #3 · answered by n2theblue66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get worked up and also, you're probably looking really desperate, which doesn't go down well with girls. In fact, it's worse than a girl being desperate for a boy, where a boy would just turn a girl down, a girl can be really horrible to you.
But may be you could send her a text or send her a little note through one of your mates...
Good luck
Lorna
2007-01-16 13:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I can help you, but I think right now you have alot of drama in your life and perhaps you need to settle things with your dad and figure out what is going on with the crying girl before you make any decisions.
2007-01-16 13:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by Alexandriagal 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to give us more information, and more coherently, if we are to help you effectively.
First, talk to your father and try to settle whatever issues are going on there - did you break a rule and now you're grounded, or is he a psycho that keeps you chained in the basement with only a computer and the rats for company?
Secondly, since you obviously have access to a computer, send the girl you like an email. Explain to her that you like her and wish you could be with her, but right now you are dealing with some family issues. Ask her to please be patient and you hope you can spend time together again soon.
2007-01-16 13:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
send her messages through your friend, she knows whats going on and just have your friend reassure her you still like her and this has nothing to do with her. believe me she's probably been through it too. apologize ( sincerely )to your dad and see if he will take you off restriction. this girl obviously likes you and i will bet she will wait to see you. remember the old adage...'absence makes the heart grow fonder' it will apply in this situation and when you are able to see her you both will be so relieved that it will help draw you together. see...something good always comes out of something bad.
2007-01-16 13:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by ?! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to tell this girl the truth because otherwise she's going to think you're ignoring her and then your relationship could go down the drain
2007-01-16 13:06:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sneak note's to her through a friend, and she can do the same. Meanwhile try to get back on your dad's good side, don't argue with him. Just say your sorry and it shouldn't take long, depending on what you did! :) Good Luck!
2007-01-16 13:06:42 · answer #9 · answered by pearl28 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try having someone else you know maybe pass a note to her from you explaining what your situation is and why. It might help her to understand, or have someone tell her.
2007-01-16 13:07:21 · answer #10 · answered by aj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she has feelings for you, if she cries at youth group...What don't you write her a letter (not an email -- letters are more personal) and explain your situation? She'd be really pleased to hear from you!
2007-01-16 13:07:08 · answer #11 · answered by Liza 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋