one of my dude mates told me that one of my close lad mates likes me and is probably going to ask me out....but one side of me wants to go out with him and the otherside aint sure.
i told my close friend that i probably say yes but im having a bit of second thoughts... i dont want to ruin our friendship by turning him down later if i dont get on with him:(
please give advice im gettin sucidal depressed
2007-01-16 04:58:11 · 7 answers · asked by brodin_is_a_punk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him that if you go out and then break up, it won't affect your friendship, if he is unsure, then say that you are flattered by the offer, but you value his friendship too much to jeopardise it.
2007-01-16 05:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by Klick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're suicidal and depressed cuz you don't know if you want to go with this fellow or not........then my best advice would be DONT GO* go to counselling instead and find out why you are so depressed and suicidal* This is nothing to mess around with* Get professional help* GoodlUck*
2007-01-16 05:02:36 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know him better and this will help you decide if you will get along as partners, see if you like similar things and you want the same from life etc.You can rush into things easily but if you break up it affects your friends as well.
2007-01-16 05:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by TRACY K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey , dont get depressed ova it , it hasnt happened yet , if it does just explain u want to keep them as freinds cos u value their freindship good luck
2007-01-16 05:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you wait till ur mate asks u out and not making urself mad before he has asked u out !
go out and tell him what u think about "dating" , dont think in it before it even has happened.
relax and take it easy in life
2007-01-16 05:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe try not to think about it and realize you have better things to do with your time then waste it on these people focus on your goals
2007-01-16 05:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my my my, isn't the women who gave an answer deepressing! of course you should. try it. good luck!
2007-01-16 05:04:06 · answer #7 · answered by mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋