me first initiating it. i'm 20 and she's 19...what should i do to get her more interested? should i just wait around until she finally calls me for once? i just don't wanna come off like a pussy to her, but i wish there was somethin i could do to draw her into liking me more...should i stop callin and texting her?
2007-01-16 04:52:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've only been together for 3 days!!! She probably thinks you should be calling her since you are the guy. And she probably doesn't want to freak you out by calling you so soon. I don't think this has anything to do with whether or not she likes you.
Bottom line: If you like her, call her. Don't start playing games. It really doesn't matter who calls whom. If she ends up not being interested in you, there's nothing you can do about it. Don't waste your time trying to get someone to like you. Find someone that does. Good luck!
2007-01-16 05:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by gobanana516 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOt sure if she's not interested....or if she is a type of girl that never calls a guy but waits for HIM to make the first move. If you wait for her to call you....i doubt that will happen. Ask her out to dinner or a show.....and see how she is..if she seems interested or not so much?? You can say to her at the end of the night...give me a call later on........if she doesn't then i would move on* or just come straight out and ask her...do u ever call a guy or do you always wait for them to phone you*
2007-01-16 05:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. It has been 3 days. You come across as a bit intense for such a young relationship. You are probably smothering her during a time when she is trying to decide if she likes you.
2007-01-16 04:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by brews 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow three days and already stalker like behavior developes. No wonder she doenst call. Relax a bit dude otherwise you might as well end it now.
2007-01-16 05:07:37 · answer #4 · answered by Steveo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her politily to call you once in a while. If she doesn't, stop calling her so much. Then when she asks about it, tell her what the deal is.
2007-01-16 04:57:54 · answer #5 · answered by ~Holls~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 days is not enough time for her to have made you the center of her world just give it time...you will not gain any ground by seeming to be to needy.
2007-01-16 04:57:09 · answer #6 · answered by utahbugtussel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't down her with calls and can you call yourselves bf/gf already? Does she think you guys are gf/bf? Give her space.
2007-01-16 04:56:56 · answer #7 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hasn't been that long she'll come around if u tell her how u feel
2007-01-16 05:01:52 · answer #8 · answered by *~*ShOrTiie*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude...it's only been 3 days. give it time...
2007-01-16 04:56:37 · answer #9 · answered by §eeker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her how you feel
2007-01-16 04:56:01 · answer #10 · answered by natdufour4030 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋