Ok so my ex and I broke up about 2 months ago since then she has been treating me as if I broke her heart when she was actually the one who broke mine. Anyway she left for college on SUnday since then she has called me two times including very early this morning? do you think she misses me or is she just bored?
2007-01-16 04:48:11 · 28 answers · asked by ImOuThEreUdigg!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she told me last week she didnt want to be with me but shes calling now
2007-01-17 06:05:08 · update #1
she is probably lonely and needing a familiar voice.
2007-01-16 04:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She could have some feelings for you, but they are not as strong as they used to be. She may just want to talk like you have used to, without all of the emotion. I would ask her straight out, because if you don't, you can never really tell if you just hide your feelings. Show her that you are still honest and willing to talk to her if she ever has any problems. Be a friend first, then ask her if she still want to be with you. If you care about her enough, you won't give up! Being honest is the only thing that you can do at this point! When she calls you, talk to her like there is no problem! That may be hard, but it will make you feel even better in the long run!
2007-01-16 04:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by To Remain Anonymous 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She might miss you....or maybe she just feels lonely or guilty for breaking your Corazon (heart) :D And if she's acting like if you broke her heart......well no of us want to be the "bad guy" in the relationship and she probably feels better (about breaking your heart) if she turns all around on you. All depends how you feel about her calling,but if I were you (and a guy lol) I would just put an end to it....cause it might get your hopes up or her hopes up and someone is gonna get hurt.....again.
2007-01-16 04:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by ?Jaileen? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bored
2007-01-16 06:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by Sue Sue2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my ex and i broke up one month ago. and i still call him and think of him all the time. she may call you cause she is bored but boredom alone doesnt get her to the phone. if she thought stuff between you two was nothing she wouldnt bother keeping in touch even if it is only two calls. take a chance buddy, call HER
2007-01-16 04:52:54 · answer #5 · answered by kf17 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She misses you because if she's away at college and still keeping in touch vs mingling with the other eligible bachelors on campus I think you left n impression on her. Eat it up. Offer to visit if she turns you down then move on.
2007-01-23 11:43:53 · answer #6 · answered by creolekitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like college life has been slow in the relationship/friendship dept and she needs an old friend to hang out with because it's easier than meeting new people, she should be out on campus taking time to start a new chapter in her life by making new friends and memories and growing up emotionally, that's half the battle in college, challenging education is the other half
2007-01-16 04:56:40 · answer #7 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She wants to lessen her own guilt by saying you broke her heart..Next time she calls ask her if she is missing you.. and unless she begs you to take her back move on and find someone new.
2007-01-16 04:53:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She disses you because there's still some feelings there. Unfortunately for you, she's off to college where the guys are plentiful and she will have forgotten you for awhile in due time. My apologies for the criticalness of the answer but its true.
2007-01-16 04:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by Jeremy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she may miss you be she could be bored. We play more games then males do. She could be trying to play you. If she is acting like you hurt her and like she loves you and all that, she probably is just bored. If she just calls to be cordial and nice and doesnt talk about her feelings for you, she loves you.
2007-01-16 04:54:20 · answer #10 · answered by vandykeprincess06 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may miss u! She may even still have her felings for u! Some people just don't get ova their boyfriend/girlfriend madd easy like that! She misses u and u should talk to her about it!
2007-01-24 01:52:02 · answer #11 · answered by Pooh Bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋