so me and my lady in bed doing the nasty,, and it came outta no-where she said the word,,, lol? what hell im suppose to say back,,
don't get me wrong i really like her,, but is what im feeling love?,,
what is love?,, and now she cant even look at me,, lol ,, this some really weird situation to be in,,
so what should i do?
2007-01-16 04:37:28 · 12 answers · asked by Moe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The key is communication. Talk to her about it. Ask her if she really meant it and tell her that you do care for her but you want to be sure of what you are feeling before you say the big four letter word.
My BF told me he loved me for a couple weeks before I told him. At first I would just say "ok" or something just as lame. Then I decided to talk about it. When we talked I decided I did really love him.
Good luck
2007-01-16 04:42:36 · answer #1 · answered by Selena H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a weird situation to be in...I think you should only say"'I love you"" to someone if you truly mean it(believe me,if you're in love with someone,you'll know!) and not just because you think it's the right thing to do,so I guess you did the right thing not to say it back to her.But she is acting like you hurt her.I'd talk to her about what happened the other night.Tell her honestly how you feel..if she truly loves you she will accept this..you can't force someone to feel something,can you?
2007-01-16 04:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by marjoleindnl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women tend to feel more emotions than men. To men, most times it's just "sex" "a romp in the sack"...for women sometimes making love makes them feel they're in love.
Trust me...You'll KNOW when you Love someone* Perhaps she can't look at you as she knows she's made things a tad awkward by blurting out those words that guys sometimes fear* Talk to her bout it....tell her you really like her alot......but you're not In LOve right now and sorry if that hurts her
But never say it back to someone just because you feeel you have to cuz they said it to you* Only say those special words when you truely mean it*
GoodLuck
2007-01-16 04:43:49 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell her the truth, I will not use those words unless I really feel it and I have known the person for at least 3 months.
2007-01-16 04:45:06 · answer #4 · answered by Bridget W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to say i love you back if your not sure,but try to understand it,try distancing yourself away from her for at lest 2-3 days and if you missed her that means you love her so thats the time that you tell her your real feelings towards her,dont get caught-up with how good your sex life with her you have to make sure that once you respond to that love thing you are sure of it because its a long term commitment
2007-01-16 04:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it particularly is lust expensive . do no longer permit it get the terrific of you . To me , it seems like it is fullyyt a weigh down & you suggested which you fall for boys particularly(actual) . Love is a robust be conscious . in no way use it till you propose it . yet to answer your question , NO . you're actually not in love ; have confidence me .
2016-12-12 12:43:35 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is exactly what I am afraid of...Do you feel like you cant live with out her?
Does she take your breath away?
Is she the one you could be with for long time/forever?
Does she make you feel comortable and backs you up whether right or wrong?
Is she your everything?
2007-01-16 04:41:54 · answer #7 · answered by FASHION*DIVA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say it if you don't mean it you just going to hurt her more..tell her what she means you and the words I love you are very important and will only use them when you ready.
2007-01-16 04:43:20 · answer #8 · answered by Nicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long you have been together is critical in answering this.
2007-01-16 04:41:22 · answer #9 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth
2007-01-16 04:40:56 · answer #10 · answered by 1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋