Me and my ex broke up a exactly 1 week before Christmas for his ex that cheated on him 3times and I still can't stop thinking about how I felt with him (like nothing could go wrong and that every thing was perfect). I usually get over relationships quickly (within a week) I dont understand y I still have feelings for him. How can I get over him? Why can't I stop trying to talk to him?
2007-01-16 04:37:02 · 7 answers · asked by Baby girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is now with his ex.
2007-01-16 04:43:15 · update #1
It hasn't been that long since you broke up could be one thing. There is also the possibility that you thought more of him that he did of you. It is also hard to take when they go back to the ex. It always makes us feel something about the ex was better than we were. Move on, because if things don't work out between them there is a good chance he will run back to you. Try to find someone you have something in common with and make a new start with someone else. That way if he does try to return you have already met someone and you can let him know that you are unavailable. Do not try to talk to him. That only makes you look desperate and the other girl is laughing behind your back about it. I sense that you are possibly young and you have a whole life ahead of you. Don't dwell on the past and think of YOUR future. Good luck to you. :-)
2007-01-16 04:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by tinbarnprimitives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop thinking about him because you were so happy and saw such a good future with him. That feeling won't go away, and I know this because I'm going through the same thing. I'm usually over a relationship within days of it ending but it's been about a month already since me and my ex broke it off. We both decided we weren't ready for it and times were a little bad for him and so we decided to just be friends. I figured I would be done and over with it by the next day or so but I still think about it all the time. And it's because we always had such a good time, lauging and joking and I saw a future with light! It is hard but I just keep telling myself that it's just not the right time or not meant to be. That helps me out a lot, and should help you too. Don't let it hold you back like I did, you could end up passing someone along the way that was meant for you! I know I've passed on a few offers since then because I still cared so much and I regret doing that. One other thing I tell myself is that at least I was able to have a taste of what everlasting happiness can be and most people don't get even that. So you've done so well with life that you were given even just that and you can be happy knowing. Keep your memories locked away and look to them when you've lost hope of finding someone. It's proof to you that there are good people out there that you can be happy with.
2007-01-16 12:48:07 · answer #2 · answered by Steve S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have to sit down and write the situation out. Most likely it's unexpected reevaluation of the situation at hand. Your mind is telling you something isn't right. But hey, if his ex has cheated on him, that's not something you want to be a part of. The answer is probably not as far away as you think, you probably just need to act on it or that the situation was too much for you to begin with.
2007-01-16 12:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by wowwee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg i have the same situation i wish i could help u . but look at it this way if his ex cheated on him 3 times an he got back with her hes a dumba** . .an maybe ur better off without him maybe ur too good for him hes just to stupid to see how good of a girl u are.
P.S SOme one WHo can really Relate!
2007-01-16 12:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by sh0rtysooseductive 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are driven to talk to him in the hope he will rekindle the relationship between you two. I feel for you, a broken heart is not fun, but it is obvious his choice is to be with her. You have to take a step back and let him go, sounds as if sooner or later he will come crawling back to you as she sounds to always cheat on him. If you want to be 2nd choice even though you are the best choice but he does not know it or care. , then wait for him. My advice to you is to go and get a guy that will apprecialte you, not toss you aside. Good luck to you!
2007-01-16 12:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont even got to read the whole thing... he broke up with you for some hoe. You gotta get over him.
2007-01-16 12:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by [quarantine] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to do something with some of your girl friends to cheer you up...if you still have feelings......either try to find another guy or..... keep trying to get a hold of your ex and tell him how you feel
2007-01-16 12:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by rockstaa LAUREN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋