"Don't treat me so well ... cos i can't take it."
What is he trying to say?
2007-01-16 04:36:47 · 28 answers · asked by Hello 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he's feeling guilty for something he's done. You being so nice to him might be making him feel worse? Or maybe you're all over him all of the time and he just needs a little space or easing up of the pet names? Ask him why he said that and what he meant.
2007-01-16 04:41:27 · answer #1 · answered by pearl28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably wasn't treated well himself when growing up. He didn't learn to treat any one well. Tell him you don't like it.
If he listens, great. However, I think both of you need lessons and examples of what being treated nicely is like.
If you have bad examples all around you, you'll have to change your environment. Enroll in a class or group together to learn how to do this...see link
2007-01-16 12:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by Yenelli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably means you're being too nice to him because he doesn't feel as attached to you as you are to him, and he's feeling guilty about it.
This has been my experience with guys who say this variation of "you're too good to me." Guilt.
Solution? Stop being so nice, and make him work a little bit more for your love and attention. Better yet, find a boyfriend who wants what you have to offer!
2007-01-16 12:41:34 · answer #3 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably means that he is either unwilling or unable to treat you as well as you treat him. If that's the case, you're probably going to be better off with someone else who can treat you as good as you treat them.
2007-01-16 12:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by metakine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm "don't treat me so well, cuz i can't take it".......sounds like he is guilty over something......If you're treating him so well..he may feel he doesn't deserve it
Never heard someone say that phrase before..but that's the first thing that came to mind. He doesn't feel he deserves it* I would find out why?
2007-01-16 12:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just not used to being treated that nice, or just knows that he can't handle and reciprocate the attention you are showing.
2007-01-16 12:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by hirofuri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy-to-Girl Translation " I'm used to being mistreated or uncared for, so it is hard for me to accept your love as sincerity. I accept the negative and distrust the positive"
2007-01-16 12:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by Caramel_CutiePie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels guilty like he does not deserve u. I said the same thing to my boyfriend after i did something wrong.
2007-01-16 13:01:27 · answer #8 · answered by newman12992 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he feels guilty from not treating you the best. Or maybe he's always been in bad relationships :(
2007-01-16 12:39:21 · answer #9 · answered by Chick-a-Dee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I reckon he does not want a serious relationship, as he cant handle a commitment on that scale
2007-01-16 12:41:55 · answer #10 · answered by Pauline K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋