2007-01-16 04:35:00 · 16 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't do anything about it. He shouldn't have to choose between you and his friends, and if you give him a hard time about this he's just going to think you are jealous and you don't trust him.
My BF is friends with his ex GFs, and I'm ok with that. I trust him completely, and I know that he only loves me and he would never cheat on me. Do you feel the same way about your BF? If not, then maybe you shouldn't be together.
2007-01-16 04:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by gobanana516 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are people really that into this myspace ****, it is like that runs peoples lives!!! Am I the only person in America who does not see what is so appealing about a Social network that lets you do nothing more than send emails, IM's, and create your own shrine to yourself. Oh and my favorite, lets fight with the people we call friends we we get removed from being his/her #1 friend!!
Anyway, it depends on the content of there conversations. If he only talks to her when you are not around then yes you need to slap him in the face and let him know you are the only woman in his life. When it comes to an ex no matter how long they dated the connection is always there and the possibility of rekindling a relationship is always an option. If you are confident that he doesnt want anything more than a friendship with this girl then continue to let them talk, after all he is your man and he ain't going anywhere........I almost believed that. Put an end to it before you get hurt even a smoldering ash can start a forest fire. Don't get caught in the flames!!
2007-01-16 04:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by voodoo_lover_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you only deserve an answer if you live with him or have been with him over a year. I also think you should never date anyone you don't trust. Just by you asking this question shows you don't think much of him. I keep in touch with exes and i love y current and would not cheat. Maybe a guilty conscience? Let it go if you really care it's probally nothing. (myspace ??? It's where you go to visit FRIENDS)
2007-01-16 04:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by Ailyx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump into conclusions just yet, but talk to him about it if it makes you feel uncomfortable. Ask him first hand why he talks to her. If he starts talking to her more than he does you, then that presents a problem. Communication and trust are the most important things in a relationship. They might be friend on myspace but if she is on his top 10 friends and your not, I would be upset. Talk to him, in person, about the whole situation. If he respects you, he will lose contact with his ex!
2007-01-16 04:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by To Remain Anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, there's a school of thought that says you shouldn't date a man who is incapable of maintaining platonic female friendships. However, I'm not so sure that I buy that. I generally think that if somebody's your ex, they're your ex for a REASON and there should be no need to keep them around.
But...
If he has told you about his contact with his ex, you probably don't need to worry too much about it (unless he's sooooooooo slick that he's putting it right out there to make you NOT worry about what he's doing). If the frequency of the contact increases, or he becomes secretive about things, then you can start to worry.
2007-01-16 04:41:20 · answer #5 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this thing about ex being friends is OK but it is a bit dicey as there are cases where they get involved again if they are in touch only on phone and mails it is fine but if they are meeting very often then talk to him
2007-01-16 04:46:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First warn him about a break-up then if he still goes on break up with him! Or just end it dont take the BS! Your his gf not her! I wouldnt take the crap unless I kept a close eye both of them at all times!
2007-01-16 04:40:22 · answer #7 · answered by will 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his butt I hate that kinda stuff. when it's over its OVER. I had that problem with my current b/f I told him to change his number. She called him like 4 times a day he never answered tho. I'm noisy so I'm always checkin' his phone! I let him know that I would if he didn't change his #. He had nothing to hide. He even left the text messages on his phone from her. It's all gravy now!
2007-01-16 04:41:25 · answer #8 · answered by jessi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so I'm still friends with my ex's it doesnt mean that he's doing anything. You should trust him and not jump to conclutions if he still liked her then he would try to get back together with her and not be with you but he's with you which means that he likes you so dont worry just trust him.
2007-01-16 04:41:15 · answer #9 · answered by Min 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep your eyes open like you are now and if anything suspicious happens, make sure you can prove it and call him on it. Just be sure before you make any moves or judgements. You don't want to look crazy.
2007-01-16 04:38:55 · answer #10 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋