I'm looking for a new boyfriend because the guys i've been with have treated me bad. I have been good to the one i just broke up with because he cheated on me with a 15 year old girl. I caught him with her outside hugging and kissing her.
2007-01-16 04:31:21 · 23 answers · asked by jrdnick1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-16 04:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I agree with the previous answer. Loving yourself is an important asset towards making relationships worthwile. Another thing I have learned is that to remember that many people have had really bad relationships in their teenage years. Alot of people who date during their early twenties have bad relationships in their teen years. These are the years that most of us are attempting to find oursevles and our maturity. Therefore, mistakes are made such as cheating or not treating people with respect.
But, there is an irony to your situation. Because you have had bad relationships in the past, you can move on towards better relationships because you have a sense of who is bad and who isn't. Experiences always help.
Finally, DON'T RUSH TO FIND ANYONE. Alot of times bad relationships occur is because of the fact that one tries too hard to fit a person with specific qualities. Get to know a person and using your best judgement and expercience, you will know whether this person will be a good match for you.
(I was in the same situation three years ago, except I was looking for a girlriend and this worked for me and now I have had a good relationship for three years and counting...)
2007-01-16 04:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by easystix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 06:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by speth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey babes don't lose heart...most of us face this kinda situation. but as per the info u've given i think u r not judging the guys u r dating properly, don't get into a relationship just 4 the heck of it, think n act carefully, get 2 know the person 1st n then only u can make him ur bf. don't jump into conclusions easily. don't worry If u desire 2 blossom like a rose in the garden of life
then u must learn the art of adjusting with the thorns. u r just 20 u'll definately get a sensible man some day or other only if u don loose hope. gud luck!
2007-01-16 04:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take time for yourself and make yourself happy for a while. The right guy will come to you when he's supposed to. If you keep jumping into relationships you're going to keep experiencing the same thing over and over until you become bitter towards men and dating. If that happens, you will end up taking it out on the guy that's meant for you and you don't want to risk that. Live your life day by day, good things come to those who wait.
2007-01-16 04:37:52 · answer #5 · answered by Steve S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do a self survey of your past relationships and evaluate the TYPE of guy you usually pair up with. Then look to see where you find these flat tires. Then ask yourself what your looking for in a guy. Then adjust your outlook according to the information you have gathered and go on a hunt for a new guy from there. good luck.
2007-01-16 04:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to take a break from relationships. it sounds like you have trust issues and whoever you are with next will suffer from your past. Just date for a while WITHOUT getting serious and when you feel that you are able to trust, look for a boyfriend. And you need to pray and ask God for strength and the ability to trust.
2007-01-16 04:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by vandykeprincess06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take care of yourself first, and then look for one, you need not be with someone all the time, find out what you want in life and a man then look, take time out for you and get over him. Be strong
2007-01-16 04:51:33 · answer #8 · answered by P_a94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take abreak for awhile..dont be in any rush to start a new relationship....and most importantly try not to fall inlove to quickly..maybe you should try to find someone a bit older than you are...as i keep saying these younger guys,all they want to do is sleep around...be careful with who you give your heart to...it not easy..but i sure will try...good luck...
2007-01-16 04:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by lala diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in a rush to find a boyfriend...You need to work on yourself first before entering into another relationship.
2007-01-16 04:37:46 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your still young stop looking for boyfriends and look for friends someone you can talk to or kick it with first and then find your self things you like and dont like within your self then work with that and youll have something towork with to not only help you but others toalso give your self more me time(spend time getting to knowyourself)
2007-01-16 04:48:53 · answer #11 · answered by lady t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋