Can a relationship still exist when both members react bad(stressed to the max) when fighting..
2007-01-16 04:30:21 · 13 answers · asked by roy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am, usually, because he gets the most upset...& When I get upset it's because I'm mad he's angry or upset at me...
2007-01-16 04:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by i ♥þîÑk☆ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I used to be the one who would get really upset. (This was my last relationship) I usually got upset because I had something to hide.
Now I'm very relaxed. I've never ever been good at argueing, but now I have nothing to hide either, so theres really no stress on my end.
Fighting will happen, can a relationship still exist? hopefully if one of you learns from the argument(s) and eventually grows up enough to learn how to handle things differently.
How do you end the fights??
*I know how I really feel deep down when Im fighting all i want, is for the argument to be over, and for him and i to be happy again.
Don't go to bed unhappy, its not worth it, it's never worth it.
2007-01-16 12:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by jameses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ended a relationship because there was too much fightning (never date a lawyer...hehe) and it was the right call because I have yet to have a fight with the person I am dating now (and we've been together now for almost a year).
2007-01-16 12:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is always the calm one...I think the key is communication. If two people are screaming at each other all the time then obviously they don't hear what the other is trying to say.
2007-01-16 12:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by Mia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG..i hate it when i am all upset at my man..say we are having an argument..and this guy is soooo damn calm..and it serves no purpose to argue with him because he hates to argue...and then he tries to calm me down..and then i feel like the damn idiot because hes like baby you know i hate to argue and lets talk about this and try to work it out ...arghhhhhhhh..he is so calm..but i love him for it..because no it is not good when there are two crazy people arguing
2007-01-16 12:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We seem to loose it at different times, luckily. People should go for help if they cannot learn how to argue fairly.
2007-01-16 12:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man! He's always able to calm me down.
Its more balanced when one of you are calmer then the other or both of you are.
2007-01-16 12:36:53 · answer #7 · answered by jessi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We both react badly because we dont fight that often.
2007-01-16 12:36:41 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we don't get too stressed out, i think i'm a little better but then again he probably thinks that he is :)
2007-01-16 12:39:26 · answer #9 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband...as for if both react badly...i think it could be really bad and escalate into violence if both were uncontrollable...thankfully i'm not violent but i sure do get mad....
2007-01-16 12:34:31 · answer #10 · answered by ?! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋