My friend is living in the states...she is unhappy, she has no friends...my boyfriend is living in the states also, so i was thinking of introducing the two..and maybe he could introduce her to some of his friend..but im scared they might get into something though..i trust my boo and i know he wouldn't hurt me intentionally, but you never know what can happen..should i introduce the two... i know i'm beautiful and sexy but i'm 10000 miles away, and nature calls..what do you think???
2007-01-16 04:21:32 · 21 answers · asked by lala diva 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
part of me is telling me to tell you "no!" and another part is saying "yes". you do run the risk of them falling for eachother, but the way i see it, if your so far away, and your boyfriend hasnt cheated on you yet, its more than likely that he wouldnt cheat on you with a friend. the advantage is that you get to see what kind of people your friend and your bf turn out to be. good luck!
2007-01-16 07:28:13 · answer #1 · answered by ursNonlyUrs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bad plan sweetie......If you have to confide in the folks from Yahoo Answers then there are already some trust issues. Not sure if it is towards your man or your girl, but lets be realistic though, you said it yourself "Nature Calls" Do you think he has been faithful up to this point? I don't care how sexy you might be, if a guy has an itch he will scratch it no matter how fine you are. I hate to be the one putting the thought into your mind, but be real with yourself, do you think nature hasn't called already? How would you ever know, how easy to lie when you are 10000 miles away and can't ever look into his eyes to see if he is telling the truth. People lie on the internet, people lie on the phone. The feeling of knowing that the person on the other end has no idea if you are full of **** and will probably never find out is great. If you haven't thought about it before you will think about it now! Best of luck to you.
2007-01-16 04:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by voodoo_lover_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pretty well answered your own question. You can trust your boyfriend but you also know things happen at the spur of the moment.
If you want to be safe no don't get them together but on the other hand if you can trust both of them apart from each other you might think you can trust them together.
Tough call. Go with your gut feeling on this one. No one knows them better than you.
2007-01-16 04:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your BF the name of some female friends he knows or his friends girlfriends and then maybe you can connect them that way. If your BF is going to do you wrong, trust me, he isn't waiting for a friend of yours to come along, it will happen anyway. She isn't going to be the ONE factor that changes his mind.
And you don't mention your trust for your friend...if she has given you probs in the past then this probably isn't the way to go.
Have her join Myspace or another online community where she can meet people in her area. Or if she is in school, encourage her to join in a group of some kind.
2007-01-16 04:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by emtalex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you're literally not BF/GF than do no longer introduce them as such. Introduce him as your pal and do not agonize a lot about what human beings might want to imagine . . . it truly is about the bride and groom after all.
2016-11-24 21:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u feel that uncomfortable about the situation i don't think u should introduce them two. You should with ure first thought.
2007-01-16 04:25:39 · answer #6 · answered by Markesha M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its a good idea. When a man or woman gets an urge they are still only human. Something could develop.
2007-01-16 04:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by nzuck22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to trust both of them. Innocent until proven guilty. If guilty, not worth the trouble anyway.
2007-01-16 04:26:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. You never let your boyfriend interact with your friends when you are not around. They could end up messing around.
2007-01-16 04:25:50 · answer #9 · answered by vandykeprincess06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not. If she is truly your friend she wont mess with your boyfriend.
2007-01-16 04:24:12 · answer #10 · answered by tchem75 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋