In my past i have done things like slept with women for the wrong reasons or tried drugs etc... I told my gf these things and she has trouble letting them go.. what should I do?
2007-01-16 04:21:28 · 9 answers · asked by Shorty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
These things are from the past and you no longer do them...and you do regret them and you won't do them again...so i don't see any point in dwelling on them....in a relationship, you can't blame a person for what he/she did "before" he/she met you...
What you need to do is to reassure your girlfriend that these are things that happened in the past...that you have changed...and that you will not do these things again....sit and have a heart to heart conversation with her...and assure her through words and actions that you have changed....
I am sure everything will be alright...
Good Luck!
2007-01-16 04:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things we've done in our past that we're not proud of can haunt us through life...but unfortunately you can't turn the clock back in time to re-do what you did....IF your g/friend has a problem letting it go...you need to stress to her that it was Your "PAST" and you're not that same person..We all make mistakes...hasn't she ever done something she regrets?? I'm sure you'll find she has but isn't willing to bring them to the surface* Perhaps that's why she can't let go of your wrong doings...cuz she's still haunted by her own doings* GoodLuck*
2007-01-16 12:25:38 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To err is human, to forgive divine.
Give her some time, and show that you are a changed man, but if she can't let it go you need to move on. I don't know the specifics but in order to have a relationship she needs to forgive and forget, because if she is going to bring this up all the time you will feel bad about it forever. And that is no way to live.
Next time tell a priest.
2007-01-16 12:31:14 · answer #3 · answered by b j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask for forgiveness from The Lord, and move on with your life. If your girlfriend can not let go of the things you have done, (everyone has a past) then you should move on from her.
2007-01-16 12:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU have learned to forgive yourself and let go of the past. If she is right for you, she will be able to do the same but it may take some time. Good luck.
2007-01-16 12:25:30 · answer #5 · answered by bandit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that they should haunt you to a certain degree. This will ensure that the same mistakes will not occur again if you are a person of a high moral standards.
2007-01-16 12:34:05 · answer #6 · answered by Reader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to get a life....... your past is your past and there is nothing you can do to change that... If she can't love you and except you for who you are then you are with the wrong girl :) :) :)
2007-01-16 12:29:54 · answer #7 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i kinda have the same problem but its the other way around..wat i did was gave up on having a love life period...its ok i guess so far lol...umm ide suggest not to do wat i did...becouse if u wanna know the truth...everytime i look at him or gaze into his eyes i feel like **** cuz i ****** things up with my past life so yea...
2007-01-16 12:30:56 · answer #8 · answered by then she killed my brain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your mouth shut
2007-01-16 12:24:41 · answer #9 · answered by wrfab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋