would you be upset if you gave your mother in law pictures of you new baby girl and two months later they are not on her walls but she has pictures of my stepdaughter up and her other grand children?
2007-01-16 04:19:27 · 27 answers · asked by samwise25 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
and when i say pictures up i mean several of each grand child they are splattered everywhere
2007-01-16 04:20:16 · update #1
the large picture is framed and laying on a bed face down
2007-01-16 04:34:11 · update #2
sounds like a deliberate snub... but you'd be playing into her hands if you voiced dismay... let it slide... be the bigger person... ultimately it's her loss for not being able to share in the joy of your child.
2007-01-16 04:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by alex b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not be upset, but I would definitely ask her why she hasn't put the pictures up. Or you could take it the other way and buy her some frames so that the next time you go over to her house, you could tell her that you thought those frames would be great for her to hang your baby's pictures in on her walls.
2007-01-16 12:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, next time give her framed photos that pretty much match the frames or style that she has around the house. Also, maybe she has beef with you, ask yourself if there is anything you can be doing to make your relationship stronger with her. ALSO, life happens, and it may just be that she's not gotten around to it yet. I have moments when I'm super organized, and then months where things I'm normally on top of tend to get ignored. You know in your gut if you need to try to make this relationship better. Give it a shot and see how it turns out, you might be pleasantly surprised.
2007-01-16 12:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well offer to buy her picture frames for the pictures so your telling her your aware of your child's picture not on the wall without coming out and saying it if this doesn't help talk with your husband about it and let him talk to his mom if this doesn't work don't worry about it because your daughter is to damn pretty to go up on an *** of a grand mothers wall
2007-01-16 12:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just didn't like the pictures? Ask her about it, try to be sensitive about it, though, and don't come off with attitude. Ask her if maybe she would like some different pictures and tell her you gave her those pictures because you thought she would like to see her whole family represented on the wall.
2007-01-16 12:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by Meghan M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you send her pictures of her new grand daughter, send them in a nice frame, she won't have an excuse then.
2007-01-16 12:28:11 · answer #6 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her some picture frames and offer to help her hang them. Then she will have to tell you straight up if she doesn't want them on her walls or if she just hasn't gotten around to it.
2007-01-16 12:26:16 · answer #7 · answered by paulginallen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be upset. Maybe you should just ask her if you gave her the pics. Even though you know you did, it would let her know you noticed that your baby's picture wasn't on the wall.
2007-01-16 12:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by just call me Mitsi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be upset yes. I would say maybe she hasn't had time yet, or maybe looking for a frame to match, maybe she missplaced. It may feel hard to do, but confront her. Ask her why she didn't put the photo(s) up yet? Until you do, you will not feel better. And not know why??!!
2007-01-16 12:27:29 · answer #9 · answered by The McK's 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask you mother-in-law why she hasn't posted pictures of the newest grandchild. Or give he already-framed pictures so she has no excuse.
2007-01-16 12:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should have put them in a collage frame and given that to her, she would have no excuses then.
Perhaps she hasn't found the right frames for them yet..........
Don't take anything for granted, ask her, before you get all upset....
2007-01-16 12:31:12 · answer #11 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋