My b/f of 7 months left his PC on and it was open to his MYSPACE profile.
I wanted to check my email, but instead saw a message that was being sent back and forth by my b/f to a random girl who lives on the west coast.
Apparently she just wrote him out of the blue because she saw his profile and thought he was cute. They do not know one another.
Anyway, she offered to show LA to my boyfriend if he was ever in the city. He wrote her back that he was coming to LA in
the spring and he would be honored to have her give him a tour of the city.
BTW....He is going to LA on business this spring.
I confronted him and he said he was just being nice and he was never planing on taking her up
on her offer of a tour.
I cannot go with him to LA in the spring, but now I'm worried he will cheat.
Should I trust him and believe him?
Does it should like he is going to cheat with this girl??
2007-01-16 04:18:59 · 12 answers · asked by *nevermind* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ADDONIS-You've been reported.
Thanks.
2007-01-16 04:34:41 · update #1
He got caught with planning a hook up and lied about it.
Now, chances are he will not hook up since he has been busted.
If I were you I'd call for a little time apart. I would think real hard about staying with this guy.
2007-01-16 04:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think it will happen then it probably will. nobody knows your boyfriend like you do and if your gut is telling you that he plans on meeting this girl then he will meet her. Even if he tells you that he did not plan on taking her up on her offer is BS. If he didn't have any intentions of taking her up on her offer then he would have said,
"Thanks, but I have a girlfriend and I don't think she would be comfortable with that."
He got caught making plans for some NSA action while on a business trip and is now trying to back his way out of it. The bad things is he could go there and never leave his hotel room and when he comes back you are still going to interrogate him about what happened during his visit. He F'd up and doesn't have a legit lie to cover his ***!! You should start looking for something too, let him see it and see how he reacts.
2007-01-16 12:28:22 · answer #2 · answered by voodoo_lover_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think if he was just being nice to her, he would have wrote: "aw thanx, if im ever by LA ill let you know" but instead he wrote that he was going to be in LA in the spring. sounds like he IS planning to meet up with her. this could only lead me to think that they might end up on a "coffee date" and such and i dont wanna put too much stuff on your head, but trust him not to do anything. but when he comes back if he did do something, you will notice it. women always do. ask him about it looking straight into his eyes, and based on his reaction you will be able to tell if he is lying to you or not. and then you'll know what to do.
2007-01-16 12:31:00 · answer #3 · answered by ursNonlyUrs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he conversing with her in the first place ? Being nice ? Men have all sorts of excuses for bad behavior. Instead of saying he would be honored how come he didn't say I have a gf ? I wouldn't trust him.
2007-01-16 12:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no way to know for sure as I don't know where a good Crystal ball is but if you are so insecure in this relationship I would worry about more than that. Why would he need to do that if you two were giving each other everything you all wanted?
2007-01-16 12:26:12 · answer #5 · answered by utahbugtussel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he seems to be a little sneaky or suspect telling her that he would and then blowing her off. Does he lie about lots of other things, do you think he is the type of guy to cheat. maybe he is trying to make you jealous to get sex from you if you have been slacking off in that department, "accidentally" leaving it open to that page.
2007-01-16 12:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he was not planning to cheat
you invaded his privacy you have to pretend you never saw that what you dont know wont hurt you
2007-01-16 12:25:17 · answer #7 · answered by SONNY_D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would dump your boyfriend he is going to cheat on you. it seems like he already has
you should check up on him more than you do, you seem pretty nosey so i am suprised if he hasnt cheated already
reported for what?????
2007-01-16 12:33:04 · answer #8 · answered by adonnis 1 · 2⤊ 3⤋
since you suspect he might, he probably will. you know him better than we do.
2007-01-16 12:24:28 · answer #9 · answered by notmyrealname 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's advertising online...what do you think.
2007-01-16 12:23:21 · answer #10 · answered by LoneStarLou 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋