My boyfriend says he doesn't cheat on me neither will he ever do it. he says that before he cheats on me he will break up with me. I trust him on that but sometimes i wonder if he's being honest with me. the thing is i find him checking out other girls. He gives girls compliments like, "you're hot, u have sexy lips, sexy legs, etc". The other thing he does is give out his number to girls or he ask them for theirs. He chats with girls online. Some that he never even met. There is this girl that likes him and wants to date him. A few days ago he made plans with her for them to hang out, "as friends he says" I had no idea about this b/c he didn't mention it to me. I found out about it but was affraid to tell him I knew. The fact that he made a date with someone who wants him, makes me upset. He hardly spends time with me and he's making dates with other girls. I know one thing can lead to the next. I'm so worried. I love him and I wanted to trust him completely. Is this called cheating?
2007-01-16 04:12:13 · 9 answers · asked by Mizz_Innocent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cheating = seeing someone other than your boyfriend/girlfriend DUH
slap yourself
2007-01-16 04:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by COlder THaN AlaSka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people can say it is and some people can say its not but i believe it is because making dates with other people is cheating. but if you love him so much and your sure that he feels that same way you should tell him to stop giving out numbers and complimenting others or at least dont do it infront of you because thats just not something you do if you have a b/f or a g/f. if you love someone that means you can tell that person anything and thats one thing i would sit down and talk to him about!!
well..good luck with him and i hope everything works out ok!!
2007-01-16 13:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by mandymandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are gonna be men! they check out other girls it dosent mean anything , but if he setting up dates with other girls thats not good at all thats cheating. what reason do your man need to hang out with someone else why cant he spend that time with you ,nip it in the bud now before it gets out of hand! oh and he's not spending time with you anymore , that ship has sailed its time to let it go honey. the answer to your question is yes this is considered as cheating
2007-01-16 12:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by MRS.BLONDIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did the same thing, and true I have never slept with onther women, but it is cheating. I let my lady down, and betraied her trust. I didn't put anything behind what I said to another women, but it was wrong to even want to talk to another women. I feel that it is ok if she talks to other guys at a bar, because its ok, and she is just being nice. I go out of my way to make sure women don't talk to me, but I did compliment a women once, and that is cheating. I didn't like the women, I was being nice, but in her eyes it is talking to another women, and thats not ok. I see now that I should have complimented her more. And she is still with me after all of it. I hope your guy sees that you are special and he like me is a dime adozen. don't let his personality cloud the fact that he is a guy. We are all scum and we don't deserve great women like you. I think it is big of you that you are even talking to him still. i hope you find someone who is worth of you. I hope this helps. Thanks.
2007-01-16 12:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by Tyler C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is something you wouldn't do in front of your partner.
Regardless of what it may be if you won't do it with them there. They you feel guilty about doing it.
BTW yes your boyfriend is cheating on you.
2007-01-16 12:19:17 · answer #5 · answered by darlin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like cheating to me. Move on..you deserve better!
2007-01-16 12:23:10 · answer #6 · answered by just call me Mitsi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
violating your space,time, bed with another person or thing.. working too much.. cheating you of your time with him..violating your space with other people..dating/hanging with people other than you.. leave him.
2007-01-16 12:20:47 · answer #7 · answered by CHELAKIKI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating honey! Open your eyes.
2007-01-16 12:19:52 · answer #8 · answered by BooBoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya you should force him to chose before things get more serious
2007-01-16 12:22:18 · answer #9 · answered by dontstandoncorners 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋