and I told him, but he thinks I'm crazy.. all the inlaws do. I have a tape of it, plus I saw it for my own eyes .. why do they always turn things around on me ?
2007-01-16 04:10:38 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Maybe they are all cheating with your sister-in-law...arrange an evening at your house with popcorn...play the tape.
2007-01-16 04:13:42 · answer #1 · answered by LoneStarLou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry your husband did this horrible thing to you. First of all, it is not your fault. It is your husband's fault and your sister in law's fault. Evidently you suspected something was going on and finally caught him in the act. I would make a copy of the tape and put it where no one else can find it. I would give his brother a copy and his parents a copy. If you don't think they will watch it put a different name on it, tell them it's a good movie that they will like that way they will watch it. Then take a copy to an attorney. If he will do it once he will do it again and you don't know how many other women he has cheated on you with. Don't be intimate with him because you don't want to catch anything from him. I've been there. My first husband cheated on me, he walked away with only his clothes and some credit card bills, I got everything else, and the clothes he had in the closet with tags still on them, I took them back to the store and got the money for them. Go clean out the bank account a too if you have a joint bank account. Get all you can! He doesn't deserve you or anything else!
2007-01-16 04:28:42 · answer #2 · answered by T.K. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, so you have a tape and they still don't believe you, well then they must be crazy, I agree with an above answer of making a movie night with the family and whoops, you put in the wrong tape. Then DUMP him, don't cheat on him that just brings yourself down to his level...........and why wouldn't your brother in law believe you, I'd show him the tape seperately, he's going to feel as hurt as you I would think, if not the whole lot of them are sick! Leave him, it's best for you, no second chances, someone who would cheat on their wife with their own brothers wife is not a good person!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-16 04:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by Aleerfas*Mwah!* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First make a copy of the tape and save the original for your divorce. Then show everyone the tape to prove you arent crazy. Then if no one wants to believe you don't worry about it.
Just GET OUT of the relationship and move on and get away from a family who upholds cheating.
2007-01-16 04:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by darlin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you saw your HUSBAND cheating with his sister in-law run, run very far away. This man is a pitiful human being and does not deserve to be with anyone. If they don't believe you that is their problem deal with your own hurt and let them be. Give the brother the tape and walk away from the family.
2007-01-16 04:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by diana b 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost... ouch. I'm not going to ask for details, it's none of my business. However, regardless of what the rest of the family thinks, you need to do whats best for you. You are never going to get sympathy from them about this situation. If you want a divorce, get out now, having that tape is your evidence of adultery and part of me hopes he is going to owe you a lot of child support and alimony. If you chose to not do anything about it, then you need to drop it with them.
A large part of me enjoys the revenge thing where you plan a huge party for him with all of his family and friends and you play the tape for the world to see, but in the end 2 wrongs don't make a right. You have a very difficult decision of head of you and I don't envy you that.
Best of Luck to you.
2007-01-16 04:19:04 · answer #6 · answered by Dawnita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I have a great idea! Invite the in laws over for an apology party. Have a few appetizers and drinks. When they all arrive have them sit down and tell them you want to make a speech but thought it would be less nerve wrecking you did it this way! That's when you slide the tape in and let them see it!!! When the tape is done you tell them your ready for your apology. Seeing as it's apology party.
2007-01-16 04:18:05 · answer #7 · answered by wondermom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All the inlaws cheat on their spouses with other inlaws and they tape it??? Where do you live, Arkansas? Get the Hell out of that marriage now!
2007-01-16 04:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need nobody to believe you, Specially if you have proofs. You know what you saw, and if you are comfortable still with him then keep it to your self. If no, you can always leave him, If they do it ones and get away with it (you forgive him), they'll do it twice three and as much as they want. After the firts time, the trust is lost, trust is like crystal, ones it has broken it never glues again the same.
2007-01-16 04:20:47 · answer #9 · answered by mexlavanderlover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, honey, u got the tape , u saw it with ur own eyes and he trippin',thats not fair. If the situation doesnt get better , u gotta do wat u gotta do, if u havent already shown him the tape, u should. Just make sure that u didnt do nothing wrong in the process ie. cheated or lied and u should be fine.dont worry bout it , it will soon be over.
2007-01-16 04:20:07 · answer #10 · answered by sweetums 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋