Is it just me ?

Question

Or does involving feelings in any kind of relationship just get you nowhere ?

Answer 1

the only feeling you need is to feel me pound you from the back!

Answer 2

Not necessarily. It depends on what kind of relationship it is. Also, if you are communicating with the person you are in the relationship with, then it will create trust. Trust will then create a sense of security, and feeling eventually get in there too. It is not a bad thing. If you are talking about girl/guy relationships, then maybe you have just had a string of bad ones and need to just be single for a while.

Answer 3

If you don't involve feelings, you won't get to a relationship. You can try to keep your feelings in check, to a certain point, as a safeguard, but eventually you have to reveal and use emotions to make a relationship grow.

Just keep trying. Eventually your hard work will pay off and you will find an amazing person.

Answer 4

You could have a relationship free of feelings and emotional involvement... but what's the point?
I think you need to find more mature and interesting people to become involved with.

Answer 5

there's absolutely nothing wrong with feelings, the problem is when you allow your feelings to override common sense and good decision making. For example, just because you feel sad, doesn't mean you have to jump off a bridge, you know better. The feelings will pass, change, come and go, get more or less intense. You need to develop coping strategies to deal more effectively when you are overwhelmed by feelings. Another example, just because I see a hot guy, and I feel like throwing him down and having my way with him, doesn't mean I have to do it, I know better.

Answer 6

well, in a sense you are totally right, but in the other hand it could strengthen in potentially bring you closer together..........
if you don't tell your "lover" how you feel and what has been brewing inside you will eventually blow up and then what??? so involving your feelings is a good thing....
still dreaming in idaho
stacy

Answer 7

It not just you, it's me also. I say stay guarded for a very very long time before you involve your feelings!

Answer 8

I'm not really sure what your question is but in order to be in any kind of relationship, there has to be feelings.....very confused.....

Answer 9

Well your leaving yourself wide open for being hurt and confused but there again if it works out longterm the feelings are good

Answer 10

sometimes they do ,but most of the time they don't. when u put too much in a relationship u end up getting hurt, but if u put less to it u settle for whatever happen happen.