Question about black men white men?

Question

I am an African American female and I have personally never dated a white guy. But I just wondered how different they were from black men. In relationships most black guys always have more than one woman, p u s s y is all they seem to want. They always have some kind of plot around everything they do. I'll tell you they have some of the best game ever. I mean I've been tricked several times and even though it hurt I had to give it to them for there well thought out plots. I mean with them it's sex sex and guess what more sex and then it's different sex, then it's different person. they'll claim you it for them, then the next day their avoiding you. they are just some of the biggest liars. I mean they lie about who they really are from day one, and even when you find out the truth they still lie. they will use you for anything

I have this friends whose been with this white guy for a long time. and she told me that white guys are nothing like that. They are different. Is this true?

Answer 1

You're looking at this all with limited vision, Shay. Men treat you how you allow them to regardless of color. The black men I dated and the one I married are not this way, with the exception of one for whom I was a fool. I rejected the dogs, but it sounds like you are falling for them. It is all about how people are RAISED, not the color of their skin. Please understand that or you will find yourself going through the "same thing, different race." People also say, "you are what you attract," so no offense, but look inside and ask what you really want. When you get that figured out and decide not to settle for less, then you'll be happier and won't feel so played by the opposite sex. Nor will you feel the need to play games either. Peace.

Answer 2

Statically of Black men who marry only 7% practice miscegenation and only 5% are with White women. The statistics are lower among Black women. So my point is if 93%of Black men are marrying Black women why would I be concerned with the 7% that don't? And as you also mentioned the statistics are even lower among Black women. I'm for the preservation and promotion of Black love, Black unity and the Black family. I don't care why White men are not marrying Black women. Contrary to the sensationalized media The US Census speaks for itself. Also I can say personally I don't know any Black/White interracial couples personally and I know many married couples. In fact just this year I witness many weddings among my friends and family that were between Black men and Black women. So again why should I be concerned with such a small group of people?

Answer 3

this is gotta be the most ridiculous thing i have ever heard .... why do people like to blame there mistakes on everybody else.. if you got played by a couple of black guys does that make them all players .... and just cause your one friend has a white b/f that doesn't cheat on her does that mean that all white males are faithful .... how does race always get applied in these kind of situations..... the real answer is that you should learn to hold your self to a higher standard and not fall for any lame with good looks and the right words ... and plus u might wanna try not given it up to everybody you date ... i not trying to say you don't have standards just give yourself some time to really get a feel for the person . Most people with good game are pretty easy to figure out and they won't wait for u to give it up

Answer 4

I don't think you can throw a blanket statement out there like that one, we all have good and bad in every race, culture and gender. I know that I am not as you describe and I have several Black friends that are not like that either, just look around some more and be clear in your mind about what you want and except from guys you are with...make it clear to them as well. Take your time before you get that involved with them. "The good ones will wait until you are ready and treat you with respect before and after!"

Answer 5

I'm sure that there a good and bad in both races. I'm white, but I know white guys who are just as you describe black guys in your question. I am married and am completely faithful to my wife, but in my younger years it was never just about sex. There a whole lot of other things in a relationship, not just sex.

Answer 6

Not really true. Guys are all the same with a white guy it comes down to if someone wants to fight they throw you the girl in front and they run. White boys will cheat with your sister instead of someone you don't know and white boys like skinny no butt woman as in black men like meat..

Answer 7

I am dating a white guy but I can tell you truthfully I have never dated a black man. From my own personal experience dealing with black men, I didn't like the "jive" attitude they displayed. With my boyfriend, there is no "attitude"--he is respectful and down to earth.

Answer 8

you know what.....I am a black female as well and i must say that i love my black men..but some of them also get on my freaking nerves because they dont know how to treat a woman....men are men regardless of the color of their skin...ALL men love p u s s y and most men play mind games..it depends on the individual...
also if you want to date a white guy you should but not because he is white but because he treats you the way that you deserve and becasue he is willing to put you first....I am not sure if you date a white man that he will not cheat on you..men are men..and you have some good and some bad...hope i helped

Answer 9

I don't think its the color.. i was married to a white guy and a Mexican , but have been dating my black guy for 22 years..
it all depends on the person and what they want out of a relationship.. white guys can be anal too...

Answer 10

I can only speak for myself ...Im white and I never cheat on my girls..Once I have a g/f I stick with her till the end...Hopefully there is no end :] Try to find a white b/f and you might just like what you get....Pick him right though dont mess yourself up.....