My boyfriend always said " I like you", but when I was ask him why you don't want said "I love you". He said later, I had many thing I need change.
2007-01-16 04:05:15 · 11 answers · asked by cindy w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how long?
its not about that
some guys say it for fun..to just get in the pants of girls
others say it because they really mean it!
2007-01-16 04:10:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, obviously he hasn't fallen in love with you yet. Let me ask you, do you really love him? Do you want to be with him? If you do, then you need to talk to him, figure out what he doesn't like about you, and make those changes. You have to be willing to change for him if you really want him.
2007-01-16 12:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by RamontheGreat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in relationship there is also that stage. the" i like u "and" the i love u" stage. the i like u is when u first meet the person and getting to know the person and all. then once u get to know the person u can say i love u because u discover that u and the person have a lot in common.
2007-01-16 12:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he can't come out and say it but he does love you then you need to move on. A guy should never be afraid to tell his women that he loves her unless he doesn't.
2007-01-16 12:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There may be a few reasons why he won't say "I love you." For example, my husband never told me he loved me until he proposed because he thought if he told me he loved me, then he would jinx the relationship. Maybe your guy has had girl problems in the past with the whole "I love you" phrase.
2007-01-16 12:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok you sound really young. which makes me guess that he's just as young. and when you're really young,saying "i love you" to the opposite sex is really scary. dont preassure him. let it happen naturally, and keep in mind that 1-having a boyfriend doesnt mean that he has to say i love you like its some kind of requirement and 2-what's the point of saying it if he doesnt really mean it. so whether your are very young or not, it could just be that he doesnt love. he just likes you.
2007-01-16 12:24:10 · answer #6 · answered by ursNonlyUrs 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this guy is trying to change you? do you want to change? is it worth it? if you like yourself the way you are and you are not in danger from drugs etc... get rid of him and when he asks why tell him " i like you but i need someone who doensn't want to play mind games with me."
2007-01-16 12:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by orangenose1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you pressuring him nto saying he loves you? When your boyfriend is good and ready, he will confess his love to you.
2007-01-16 12:09:43 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long a you like
2007-01-16 12:13:38 · answer #9 · answered by MRS.BLONDIE 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
crazy that you accept this stupid answer from him. self esteem you need. move on.
2007-01-16 12:09:13 · answer #10 · answered by swimmyfishy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋