My gf beats me up alot when she is angry and from ym part as she said is that I nagg a lot like I dont stop naggin when I get angry she cant explain herself and she says that is why she beats me . What can I do to make her change I dont want to leave her I want to make change - please advise how to deal with the person who dont solve talking instead use their hands insteads . Please help I want to help her control her anger . I love her I cant leave her
2007-01-16 04:05:15 · 9 answers · asked by Thinking 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the best thing you can do is lay charges, this may give her the incentive to take a good hard look at herself I know its tough but she will not change other wise unless there is good reason, if you lay charges you may also drop them if she goes to anger management. abuse is abuse and assault is not acceptable
2007-01-16 04:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by ransom53 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok abusive realtionship alert! it might sound unusual but it's been proven that women that beat their partners are called "abusive". she might need proffessional help. or someone to put her on her place. you nagg, she hits. sounds like you take a feminine aproach to your problems and she, hating it, takes a more male type of approach. but that doesnt make it ok. she is physically abusive and that is a felony. so before you take drastic measures try talking to her. raise your voice even, something to remid her that she's the woman, and your the man. now , dont go overboard. after that, if she continues her abusive ways, leave her. she wont change.
2007-01-16 04:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by ursNonlyUrs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all Nagging is not talking.
Talking is both of you sitting down and communicating.
Maybe both of you need to sit down and take a good look at what both of you are doing.
Then BOTH of you considering taking some anger management classes.
Otherwise just leave it will end up getting worse not better if you dont take any action to fix it.
2007-01-16 04:12:28 · answer #3 · answered by darlin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rex Kwon Do is your only hope. Seriously though thanks for the laugh. HA!!
Anytime you start out your sentence with "My girlfriend beats me up alot when she is angry" That is just priceless. For heavens sakes man don't give that girl any whiskey, you will be spitting out your teeth. But hey on the bright side, after she knocks you around a bit, then she will want to @#$%.
2007-01-16 04:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by Bobby the Brain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch... i'd call her and tell her the truth about what occurred. Then i'd agenda a "date" to social gathering and spend a million-on-a million time which includes her. Like bypass to lunch, or have her over, or something. supply her a bath choose or perhaps perchance a small present (like those we use as prizes on the bathe). ask for forgiveness vast time, blunders happen... mom made a boo boo!!! solid success!
2016-10-17 01:42:18 · answer #5 · answered by christler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she beats on you because you feel you deserve that abuse therefore she can get away with it. You have a choice, leave when she gets upset, get her into anger management counseling and go to counseling together.
2007-01-16 04:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can leave her...you can't do anything to change her
if you want to continue to be in a relationship where you get beat then stick with this female, but this world is full of females who do not resort to violence when they don't get their way.
i'm sorry if you feel that you can't leave this abusive situation
2007-01-16 04:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by **Lil QT** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change someone else, they have to want to do it for themselves.
Sorry.
2007-01-16 04:08:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might need meds.
2007-01-16 04:11:40 · answer #9 · answered by puppylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋