ive only been with 2 girls before and that was long time ago ive grown shy to girls my dad has always kept me off the streets at night he feels that its not safe with all the lunatics in the world and girl friends always want to see you alot of the times and knowing my dad he probly wont let me see her much any help oh as i get older and leave school age around 17 or 18 is that time i be more likely to finally get over my shyness and get a gf .
2007-01-16 03:49:27 · 15 answers · asked by chase 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop worrying about it so much.
2007-01-16 04:02:07 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be able to be more independent the older you get, and there is PLENTY of time to find a girlfriend. I would talk with your dad and ask him for special permission maybe, or ask him what you CAN do, and not worry about what you can't. If the girl really likes you, she'll see you any old time of the day. Also, always be polite, patient, and tender with girls, girls always like nice guys, and the jerks don't win! Above all, just be yourself, and keep in mind that you have nothing to lose. You are less likely to come off as inexperienced if you seem comfortable with who you are.
2007-01-16 03:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by Meghan M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey your the same age as me! Im 15 to, and I still dont have a girlfriend. Seriously dont worry about it. You will find a girlfriend and girlfriends now dont even matter. And yeah once you leave high school and get a job or go to university you will start to get more girlfriends. Im shy of girls too, but you just got to talk to them more. And even if you dont want to know that is not a big deal. If I dont get a girlfriend in high school I dont care, because it only matters once your out of high school. Everyone in high school is like "oh you dont have a gf, you gotta get one" .. thats BS because you got your whole life ahead of you to get a girlfriend. Study hard in school, and then you can get a good job and makes lots of money and you will for sure gets lots of girls while all the other guys who were havin sex in high school instead of studying are workin at mcdonalds.
As for your dad, well yeah my dad is the same too but he knows my friends so he lets me go out sometimes because he trusts me. Try to make some more friends and introduce them to your dad so he know there not druggies or whatever.
Good luck!
2007-01-16 03:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by Joseph 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I'm 23yrs old and when I was your age I couldn't wait to have a BF, I did finally get one around 16, and I had losers but, when I stop looking mr right came to me and 8 yrs later we are still happy. So I suggest that you should wait a while then let her come to you. There is someone for every body.
2007-01-16 03:57:05 · answer #4 · answered by duckie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Meet her in the school if your dad doesnt allows you to go outside for your safety. Shyness will be over if you talk to girls regularly. Dont worry.
2007-01-16 03:54:37 · answer #5 · answered by hmmm 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For the girl who told you to kill herself...ignore her. She obviously hates herself and her own life therefore by being mean and nasty to others makes her feel better. We should all feel sorry for her. Poor Alyssa.
As for you my dear, 15 is young. Don't try to grow up so fast. Maybe your dad will allow you to have a girlfriend over to your house to watch a movie or something. Stay sweet.
2007-01-16 04:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by Sasha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude shyness might leave with age. Just being more mature. Just sneak out or work out with your girl when you can actually meet. Set something up. Take risks. It should be fun.
2007-01-16 03:55:49 · answer #7 · answered by JK 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why don't you invite a girl over to your place so that you can warm up to the idea and so will your parents when you take this step most parents will see how you are and you will gain some of their trust after a while venture out going to the movies or somewhere public
2007-01-16 03:55:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well....im 15 and ive been waiting..ill find sum1 soon If you want a g.f....yoo get 1....yeah yoo can have the number ring her up...See her at school if she goes your school..!!! That is shocking that yoo have only ever had 2 girlfriends. Most boys are scared....!! if yoo cant get 1 wait till your older and have a job...
2007-01-16 03:55:03 · answer #9 · answered by x-Kelly-x 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My brother would say, You have to think like a cheetah look for the one of the weekest prey and go for it. Practice makes good experience.
Just have fun while is last, You can't a teenager forever.
2007-01-16 03:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by Jamie B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sneak out when your dads asleep....or just wait till your 18 to do what ever you want!
2007-01-16 03:52:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋