I just broke up with my boyfriend about three weeks ago and I need some advice. I met someone and they want to get hooked up should I ask my boyfriend one more time if there will be another chance because I still have feelings but, I'm trying to move on or not because he has made it clear that we will "probably not" geet back together. I miss my ex so much keep in mind he was my first boyfriend and I'm 18. So what shall I do yahoo sages?
2007-01-16 03:33:40 · 15 answers · asked by pebblespunk2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't beg.... if he says he is not sure is because he doesn't love you anymore... a real guy knows what he wants and knows who he loves, so move on girl he was only your first boyfriend, you gotta try more guys....
2007-01-16 03:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by aries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to wait until your feeling for your ex have diminished. If you get into another relationship now you will only be hurting the next guy. It always seems to work out that way, the minute your ex finds out you have a new man he will come running back with his tail between his legs. You will never be able to give a new guy all the attention and love he deserves unless you are completely over your ex. Don't rush into anything for the time being, enjoy being single, it is great trust me!!
2007-01-16 11:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by voodoo_lover_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you break up with him? There had to have been something bad going on to make you leave. I know it hurts and you miss him, but if you aren't getting treated right, you shouldn't go back to him. You need someone who is going to love and appreciate you for who you are and someone who gives unconditional love. I don't suggest hooking up with this other boy either because right now your hurt and confused and your on the rebound. Rebounding is a bad thing because you feel like you don't want to be alone and you want to jump right back into that "comfort zone" of being part of a couple. If you do that, your not being fair to yourself or the other guy. Give yourself some time to heal and then you can proceed with the guy or maybe you'll realize you like being single and you'll just be independant. I hope that your happy, whatever you choose because we all deserve to be happy......
2007-01-16 11:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by akv_8781 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way do not ask him! I understand that you still have very strong feelings for him. We all still have a special place in our hearts for our first loves but honey, you have to let go otherwise you will never be happy because you will always be wanting him and he will not want you besides men can be cruel and use you because they know they can because you want him back so bad that you might do anything to get his attention but what happens then is that you end up feeling like a fool and you will have your heart broken even more and stomped into the ground! Do yourself a favor and let him go!!
2007-01-16 11:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by sasy_tabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to move on dont try to keep someone who doesnt want to stay. Let him go, try the new guy you are still young you dont have to settle down with next 1 go out enjoy life see what the clubs have to offer.Check out the local campus see whats happening love is not answer to everything.
2007-01-16 11:39:00 · answer #5 · answered by FASHION*DIVA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not be ready to move on yet. If you still love your Ex take some time and heal from the wounds left by that relationship before moving on to get hurt again..
2007-01-16 11:39:24 · answer #6 · answered by xxgq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you really miss him and need him you should give him another chance. But it depends on why you guys broke up. Just remember don't leave the one you love for the one you like.
2007-01-16 11:41:17 · answer #7 · answered by drcrim07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to get your ex back...start hooking up with this new cat and I promise you, your ex will be crying to re-claim what was his.
Damn...don't you girls have any guy friends to help you figure this sh!t out. Men are tyrants and you never give the advantage to a tyrant willingly.
2007-01-16 11:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by huckleberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your ex proably won't get back together but ask him and find out for sure so you don't mess any chances you had with him if there was any but if he doesn't want to go back out with you then go out with this other guy.
2007-01-16 11:38:49 · answer #9 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep steppin. don't wait around for the slim possibility that he might take you back later. if the two of you do end up getting back together, he will have hooked up with other girls by then, don't try to hold out for him.
2007-01-16 11:38:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋