My husband's family is from one state and my family is from another state. He wants to be buried with his family and vice versa. I would like to be buried beside of my husband so how do we come up with a Happy medium? We are just preparing for our future and were going to start looking into plots and things so this topic came up.
2007-01-16 03:29:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Do you have children? You may want to make it easier on them and find a place where you live to be buried together.
Honestly... your spirit is going where ever you believe it will go so where you remains are located after you die is just logistics.
2007-01-16 03:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good question! Just 'my' opinon so don't get the wrong idea. He is your family now and of course you should be buried beside your husband. I believe this is a disicision he should make. I know you didn't ask for it but my "ex" and her husband bought a lot beside me. Been divorced for 14 years and still can't get away from her even if I die.
2007-01-16 03:37:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about it this way, when your dead you won't care where your body is. You can have two plots in both areas, just have your bodies cremated after the funeral service, and half the ashes go to one state funeral, and half goes to the other.
Or you can each decide to be buried in your own state and forget about being buried next to eachother.
2007-01-16 03:35:46 · answer #3 · answered by GirlUdontKnow 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Same thing with me and my husband. We both agreed to just be buried with our families. I dont mind if we arent right next to eachother... rotting. Who cares... because we will both be in heaven together. This earthly body wont matter anymore.
2007-01-16 03:33:54 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And the wife shall leave her mother and father and cleave unto her husband.
2007-01-16 03:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by Dorothy and Toto 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with "Alexia", but mix both the ashes together and then divide them, and they can still be together in two different states.
2007-01-16 03:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be cremated and ashes spread in both states. Ta da!!!
2007-01-16 03:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
over time you 2 will be your family .. thus his family will be you, and yours him.
2007-01-16 03:38:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
donate your bodies to science and the ashes could each be put on prospective sites
2007-01-16 18:00:15 · answer #9 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well one of you could get cremated and half goes with one of you and the other in the state they were from.
2007-01-16 03:33:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋