Okay my boyfriend is out on the road right now with his dad, hes a truckdriver...and hes been gone for like 2 weeks now. when he was here, we lived together and everyday we would fight and argue about stupid ****. now that hes been gone, he tells me he misses me so much and loves me and hes sorry for everything thats ever happened and he just wants to come home. i just want to know if he really misses me or is just putting on a show? and hes the sweetest person ever now....i wonder if it will stay the same or go back to how it used to be.....? Help meh!
2007-01-16 03:28:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-16 03:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by conan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I definitely think that he misses you. Now that he is not by your side at the moment, he realizes how incomplete he feels. That's why he misses you and of course tells you that he misses you.
My boyfriend and I use to see each other everyday and we would argue about everyday!! Then I went away for a vacation. I was away for like a 2.5 weeks.. and MY GOD I was missing him like crazy. All I wanted to do is be with him, even if it was to argue with him. I totally did not feel like a whole person.. I felt handicap. That is when I realized that no matter what, I wanted to be with him.
I tell you my story because your boyfriend is probably going through the same thing. At the moment he probably feels handicap too. So just take his word, and live. Don't stress it. He loves you girl!
Good Luck!
2007-01-16 03:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by WiseGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absence does make the heart grow fonder and it sounds like that's whats happen with you and your man. I am not sure if he's just saying that but sometimes a couple needs to get away from each other and they get along a lot better when they get back together. It happened with me and my husband. Before he started taking his ged classes we were together all the time so we fought a lot and since I'm not with him all the time we get along much better. Maybe that's the case with you and him. Just wait until he gets home and see how things go. I hope it works out.
2007-01-16 03:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder!
You will just have to wait and see. See if he changes when he comes home. If he turns back into the person he was before, he might not be worth it. But you never know, this time apart could have been what he needed to realize how much he loved you.
Only time will tell.
Good luck!
2007-01-16 03:36:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes telling you the trusth, it maybe that coz hes not with you hes relised how much ge misses you & loves you and thats why hes saying it all now, and because he realises how lucky he is! Also he might feel stupid saying hes sorry to ure face!
2007-01-16 03:31:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the whole... miss you while we are apart, and fight when we are together. When he comes back... this is what is going to happen. AT first, you two will be all lovey dovey, and about a week in, you two will go back to fighting. Good luck
2007-01-16 03:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will most likely go back to the way it was. It may stay the same for a short while, but ultimately will go back to the way it was.
2007-01-16 03:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by dwarner33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it'll be amazing for awhile but you gotta work at it to keep it that way. he sounds ok so y'all just gotta remember how ya missed each other when he was gone when ya start to fight.
2007-01-16 03:33:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need help you said it yourself that he's amazing so good for you.
Until he proves himself other wise stick to the evil you know.
2007-01-16 03:41:20 · answer #9 · answered by beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let LOVE prevail. let him make compromises to renew his habit and ways to gain enough trust from you,i know thats the best for you two people in LOVE!happy honeymoon!!!
2007-01-16 03:38:00 · answer #10 · answered by speedmaztyr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know it was stupid and he knows it was stupid. You are both willing to work at it and forgive and forget. What are you waiting for?
2007-01-16 03:31:58 · answer #11 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋