There is this guy I like and he is really good mates with me!! My birthday was coming up so I invited him to my birthday and then he started text messaging me flirty text messages saying how he wants to get off with me and I was flirting back too!! On the day of my birthday we got off a lot and he kept feelin me up saying how I'm a good kisser and then he told all his mates that he got off with me but then few days later he started to stop texting me, I don't understand what went wrong!! Please help me I don't know what to do!!!!
2007-01-16 02:47:12 · 27 answers · asked by Miss_Party_Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If this guy is young...hes just looking for a good time..you cant act easy even if you are..you need to be hard to get and respect yourself or else no one will respect you. Guys like a challenge..be that challenge..never make a guy think that your interested..always keep them guessing..now all his mates think your easy...since he told them...he doesnt respect you and never has..good luck..
2007-01-16 02:51:47 · answer #1 · answered by lOvInG mOmMiE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a situation where you meet a guy that you thought might lead to something further like a relationship for starters. It seems in his excitement, being all over you and kissing you that maybe it was just a fling. It could be the player type that just meets a girl for the night tells her how pretty she is and would like to kiss her if she agrees and after the night is over then he moves on. It does not seem like he is coming back since he has stopped texting you, or it could be he has a job that requires him to be constantly doing something so he on the weekends has time to text girls. I don't think this is love it sounds more like lust. Sorry to say that but, you have to decided what you want to do, either wait and see if he text you back or move on and find someone else. There are plenty of guys out there that would love to date you.
2007-01-16 10:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor girl!! Did you not realize how you were coming off as "easy" to this guy?? He totally did not respect you by texting you in that forward manner that he did. And then what do you do? You texted him back!! Hope this will be a hard lesson you will learn. Please show more respect for yourself! If you don't, you are letting the guys know that they can just use you. Don't do this anymore. Relationships take on more value when two people have mutual respect for each other.
2007-01-16 10:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well let me tell u he was jus palyin around wit u and not to be mean but u were jus a piece of *** for him so u be the better person and go out and go get a guy that really respects u and 4get a bout him and move on there are more fish in the sea so good luck
2007-01-16 10:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by boricua_italian_mixbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he text message you with flirty junk it shows that he may not be totally dry in the ears, but then again some girls like that flirty stuff. I prefer to be very mature about a situation like that and confront her personally about anything on my mind.
2007-01-16 10:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey this guy is aloser he just wanted his cake and eat it too if you get what i mean. you are better off without him my advice to you is to go out and find a guy that will treat you the way you want to you did nothing wrong except kiss a guy that is your friend honey there is one basic rule of friendship dont get involved with someone that is your freind it always end bad good luck honey xx
2007-01-16 10:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by samantha l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he might have had a bet going on with his friends about whether or not he could get off with you and he won. So he had no more use of you. Sometimes boys can be very cruel.
2007-01-16 10:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gave him what he wanted and when he was finished, he left. If a guy really likes you, he'll stick around because he likes being around you, and not because you get him off. There are much better fish in the sea, girl!
2007-01-16 10:51:08 · answer #8 · answered by Meghan M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur so thick u cant even take charge of your life ur askin question on yahoo, y dnt u be stright with this guy if he lost intrest it will be cus of 12 things
#1 he thinks u dnt like him - but u kissed him so he must know
#2 he had enought with u n probly say "im a player baby"
so get a life
2007-01-16 10:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are obviously young. you have alot to learn and it starts with this. when a guy feels up on u and tells his friends then stops calling, he doesn't like u or care about u. he wanted to have his fun and that's it. he saw u as someone who believes anything they tell her, u need to stop letting boys like him get too close, make guys like that feel the way u are feeling right now and not vice versa! you need to throw out the trash.
2007-01-16 10:55:05 · answer #10 · answered by gracy808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋