My mum is constantly on about my weight I'm only about 5 pounds overweight but she keeps telling me I'll die if I don't do anything about it.
My little brother has special needs and he beats me up and gets away with everything.
My dads always grumpy.
My gran calls me fat and humiliates me infront of my Friends and family by making me feel really fat.
The only peson who really cared for my was my Grandfather whose now dead please help me!!!
2007-01-16 02:20:35 · 15 answers · asked by rozzywozzy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
God you must be going through a very tough life with that family of yours. My guess is that your mother is frustrated by your brothers who has special needs and she probably too anxious about health. If you are only 5 pounds overweight you are not fat at all, and you definitely won't die that is a huge exaggeration.
Your father sounds like he doesn't want anything to do with the troubles the family is going through and so is grumpy all the time, he has a weak personality.
Your grandma I'm sorry to say is a ***** and next time she calls you fat point out to her that she doesn't have the perfect figure either! And I'm sure she is butt-ugly too. Now don't go starting on diets and whatever because even if you were stick-thin your gran would insult some other part of your body because that is what bitches do.
As for your brother he may have special needs but for him to beat you up is WRONG! There is no excuse and you need to protect yourself from him! He might be sick but it is not your fault and you are not the one who has to suffer the consequences of his illness! Your parents might be too scared to stop him because of his condition but you don't have to take it! It's up to you please do something or you will have a really bad time growing up! Trust me I know!
2007-01-16 02:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are only five pounds or so overweight, don't worry about it. It sounds like your parents and grandmother have some problems of their own and are probably just bugging you to make themselves feel better. I don't know what the rest of your relationship with your mother is or how old you are but if you are able to talk to her, tell her how much her comments hurt your feelings. Try to spend more time with people with a more positive attitude. Join groups at school or work, take a class or take up a hobby that involves spending time with others. Good luck.
2007-01-16 02:28:56 · answer #2 · answered by Poohcat1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jeez. I don't know how you manage it.
In regards to your mom, five pounds overweight is not too big a deal. You can be ten or fifteen pounds overweight and still be okay. And are you sure that your weight doesn't match up with your height and body mass? It's different for everyone. You should ask a medical profesional if you don't know and you want to be sure.
2015-10-06 02:57:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 09:02:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel good about yourself and the hell with what they think. Five pounds either way is not going to kill anyone. Tell the people who are being offensive that they can have their opinions but to please keep them to themselves. Your a young woman and should not be subjected to such ridicule. Believe in yourself and be proud of who and what you are.
2007-01-16 02:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell your family how you feel on a letter maybe they dont care to listen but they would read a letter and see what they doing wrong, dont run away from home you dont need to go true all that trouble they just trying to help you in a wrong way that is all just tell them they doing it wrong and they hurting your feelings****
2007-01-16 02:27:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell them to shove it seriously. start beating up your little brother and see how he likes it...familys like this need help. they should love and respect who you are instead of changing it...or making fun of you for it. ask your mother if shes gained any weight, tell her she looks a lil chunky. haha..but seriously..do it
2007-01-16 03:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen it shouldn't matter what they think of you the most important thing is what you think of yourself..Families will do that but remember you are you and they are themselves thell them if they can't accept you for who you are then it's on them..
2007-01-16 02:34:39 · answer #8 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Overweight is not good. Try to reduce your weight. Go for jogging or use tread mill. I am sure all your problems will be solved.
2007-01-16 02:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by elvisjohn 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ignore their negative comments.
2007-01-16 02:31:00 · answer #10 · answered by sa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋