My boyfriend recently broke up with me and I miss him so much. We still talk everyday, pretty much like nothing ever happened. We only broke up because of our families. The only thing that's different is that he doesn't answer to me how he used to. I really want him back but family accepting the relationship is very important to him. We are both in our mid twenties. I love this man so much and we have discussed marriage. What should I do? Does he still love me? I want him back so bad.
2007-01-16 02:18:07 · 13 answers · asked by 3262m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get to the root of the problem. If your breakup was because of your families then you must know the issues. Deal with the issues. Talk to your families. Work on resolving the problems they had. If their issue is something that can be changed, then consider that. If it is some other issue like race, religion, something that will not likely change... then you have to deal with making them understand why their views should change. Ifyou love each other, you can overcome this. Sooner or later, the family has to realize they must accept it or risk losing their son.
2007-01-16 02:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your both in your mid-twenties why are you letting other people run your lives. If you want to be together, then be together. Don't let other people come between you. If he only broke up with you because his family said to, then I'm sure he still loves you. Talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he still decides that he can't be with you. Stop talking to him. You can't force him to change his mind so find someone who has a mind of his own and who will live his life the way he wants. It'll be hard at first but it'll get better. Maybe once you've moved on he'll realize what a mistake he made.
2007-01-16 02:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this young man loved you in the first place, what family members think would be of no importance to him. The only thing that would matter would be that the two of you are together. I think you should move on with your life and stop sitting around focussing on how bad you want some one that obviously does not want you. I hope what I am saying is not to hard for you too take...the point is that truth is the quickest and best way to deal with the emtional obstacles that young women face.
2007-01-16 02:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by Itiyah Yisrael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
family problems are really hard. my boyfriend is black and I'm white and our parents don't agree with it. It tears my heart apart when my family is so ignorant, but I love him and if he's willing to try to make it work, then so am I. The one thing I am afraid of is that he will give in and walk away because I'm not enough to go through the hassel. Maybe your boyfriend is afraid of the same thing that I am. Just ask him, open communication is the only way.
2007-01-16 02:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by nightstar114 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to forget about him and moved on....if a man had chosen his family in the first place (before marriage)....he would NEVER choose you (should there be any family dispute in future)....after marriage....unless...you are prepared and willing to accept the music which is very...sorrowful especially when you have children in the picture....
2007-01-16 02:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be using the "family" excuse because he is NOT willing to tell you it is OVER. Thats what my gut says in this situation...
Do NOT contact him at all for a week.
... if he calls pretend you can't talk then. IF he calls YOU, after the week is over then talk again.
2007-01-16 02:25:10 · answer #6 · answered by dbzgalaxy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure ask him.If you two want to get married then do it.Family is good but if you get hooked up then you both will make a family of your own.
2007-01-16 02:28:27 · answer #7 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its your call mid 20s have it your way. both of you take off start your lives out the way you want to
2007-01-16 02:23:22 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
mid- twenties! and still listening to ur parents thats kinda childish...i think u should ask him and if he says yes u guys should run away together and get married...to hell wit ur family
2007-01-16 02:23:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes he still love you. but you need to forget about the family cause you are not going to marry the family you are going to get married with him.
2007-01-16 02:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by angelica v 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋