I want her to be my girlfriend she is good at starting conversations but I suck at trying to keep them going. I am kinda shy what are some things that can help me be less quiet and get into conversation like she can? I try to be less shy and I think it is improving but i just want to get rid of it completely any ideas?
2007-01-16 02:12:33 · 11 answers · asked by Lil Jon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you want this girl right? well i know shy doesnt work because some girls r turned off by that but in a way it gives you a lttle mysterious side to you that girls like (a challenge) O.k. relax dont be afraid of her shes not going to bite or run when you open ur mouth rite? she sounds like she likes 2 talk2 u. it shoulnt b that hard cause she already opened the door 4 u. talk about things that r fun that youve done. things that r relaxing(that u can keep in ur mind) so u stay calm. and the words will role. like i said the door is opened.
2007-01-16 02:31:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, your current girlfriend may or may not have a point. Consider this: how would you feel if your current girlfriend was spending some time with an ex boyfriend? Even if you would think it is okay she does not, and part of loving a person is considering what makes them feel uncomfortable and doing the opposite. Changing and doing things that another person likes does not necessarily mean that you are changing who you are; it just means that you are taking another persons feelings, likes, or dislikes into consideration. (Normally when in a relationship such as this, this is the case) My advice: Limit your contact with your ex girlfriend. Your ex girlfriend is in your past and your current girlfriend is your present. Am not saying or suggesting you should dismiss your ex girlfriend altogether but your ex should be treated the same way you would treat another guy friend. (it should strictly just be friendship from afar; given the history you guys have with one another.) Hope things work out, and I hope this advice helped.
2016-05-24 23:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can start taking action man!!! If you find someone you like, you got to let them know you like them. A tip dont just talk, casually ask out, the tip there is dont say the words date and get her guard up. dont push the relationship talk. Aim to be good friends, then you can start working on the deeper relationship. She will let you know if she likes you. and for god sake if you want to kiss her, dont ask her if she wants to be kissed!! you look at her, and you get close while you are talking if she dont back up then she wants to be kissed. just be short about it.
When you take action and are in control the shyness should not be a factor
2007-01-16 02:24:24 · answer #3 · answered by Jonas V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww thats so cute. You just have to talk about things that you can carry on about. Don't worry about if she's interested in what your going to say, because then you'll be afraid to say anything at all. If she enjoys conversation the way you say she does then she'll be interested in whatever you talk about. You just have to get comfortable around her, relax and be yourself.
2007-01-16 02:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by Miss B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably haven't been in a relationship with her for too long. As you get to know her better, you will be more comfortable and able to express yourself more..as if she were one of your guy friends. It just takes time.
2007-01-16 02:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by xoxo_sexy_biatch_xoxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the sexiest thing on earth is self confidence. you need to get over your shyness....
go to the mall, pretend to want to buy something and talk to the girls who help, don't be all creepy and weird though, that should be good practice to get over shyness i think :)
2007-01-16 02:18:16 · answer #6 · answered by fate_n83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be your self and if she can't see what a gerat guy you are she does not deserve your affections move on to a girl who will not only notice you but appriciate who you are and like you for it.
2007-01-16 02:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by sexy gurl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you are not ready yet. You have to be her friend first, try your best to listen clear and think fast then spill it out, then there you are all TALKER! :)
2007-01-16 02:16:51 · answer #8 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk about something you know alot about.()
2007-01-16 02:17:31 · answer #9 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident of yourself...
2007-01-16 02:19:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋