I met a great great great lady. We have only known each other 3 weeks.
I have totally fallen for her, but I think it is scaring her away.. to much of a good thing too fast.
How do you keep your feelings in check? I find it really hard to do that when the "fireworks" are so incredible.. if you know what I mean...
I do want to slow down and be cautious that I don't just give myself away to the first possible match.
Any advice?
2007-01-16 01:51:45 · 8 answers · asked by DanjoHart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have sexual infatuation. When you start to get all worked up and want to call her even though you already called that day, just go do some other activity. She is ONLY A HUMAN, no need to get carried away. You''ll see she is not perfect soon enough.
2007-01-16 01:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by ♥~Gemma~♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it is so hard to do that. the thing is when u finally find the person that ur heart desires u can't keep the feeling inside. u have to let it out because it is too much to handle. yeah the female will think that only if she is not into u the way u r into her, but if she digs u i don't think it would be a problem. well since u know that u r scaring her away so u should try to slow down.
2007-01-16 10:04:52 · answer #2 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't help how you feel. Just don't smother her with your affections and said feelings if it's a fairly new relationship. Take it easy; try to keep your actions and emotions in check and just go with the flow, and, if it helps, try talking to someone else about how you feel towards her. Once you've been together for a decent amount of time, then try telling her. ^^ I'm happy for you. Good luck!
2007-01-16 09:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by CrystalDreams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to prevent yourself from falling in love,then turn off your "love switch."This may sound stupid or impossible, but, I seem to be able to control this. I just make up my mind to not fall in love, and then I don't.Maybe,someday, I won't be able to control this, but right now it seems to come easy for me. If this lady has such a trmendous effect on you,be very very careful not to scare her off,as ladies that make you feel this way don't come along to often.Best of luck to you.
2007-01-16 10:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a tough situation she may feel the same way you do and wonder why your "holding back" just be honest let her know how you feel and ask her if you are moving to fast......P.S. dont listen to me as i,as good looking as i am ,have no luck with the ladies
2007-01-16 09:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by marc l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see any wrong in showing her your feeling. If you are serious about this lady, continue what you are doing but don't ask her to have sex with you, yet.
2007-01-16 09:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by maran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is tough when that one unique woman comes your way. As Melrose said, she hooked me on her first squirt. She is such a naughty nurse and I love every minute of it. Hope your gal will treat you the way Melrose does me.
2007-01-16 11:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by ICARRYABIGSTICK 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cant its like that
2007-01-16 09:57:49 · answer #8 · answered by $$$$$$$$ice man$$$$$$$$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋