Can one have casual sex and not be cheap? What makes you cheap and what does not?

Question

How can one satisfy his sexual needs without losing his self respect? regardless of one's gender.

Answer 1

Having or not having sex does not necessarily preclude your being perceived as 'cheap'. It's the way you carry yourself and handle the way you conduct your affairs. There are women that have sex with dozens of guys and you'd probably see one of them and wish you were so glamorous; there are others that stagger down alleyways and look like warmed over dog poop. As a famous man once said: "You can put a pig in a silk dress; it's still a pig." End of lesson...

Answer 2

Casual sex does not have to make you cheap. Cheap occurs when you have casual sex without standards. If you meet up with a girl and you are both into each other but not really looking for a relationship, casual sex can be a great thing. If you normally wouldn't touch her with a ten foot pole, or you know she thinks you are her boyfriend, that's not cool. Keep your standards, be honest about what you are looking for and there's no reason not to have casual sex. Oh, and of course, use that condom.

Answer 3

well be honest if its a like loose arrangment between you and someone you sleep with sometimes, be honest make light of it, if your casually seeing and sleeping with more than one person, mention the others to them, dont make a big thing of it like say oh that night not good so and so's coming then, and when you start regretting the casuallness stop. cos if you carry on after the funs gone you can get yourself into baaad habbits. least thats the way it worked for me. honesty and fun gotts b the main thing.

Answer 4

Society.

Answer 5

of course you can --- you just need to only do what you feel is "right" and forget what other people think