your completly in love with them but all they do is hurt you?
i hate him but i want him back too
i took a friends advice and deleted him off my msn, myspace, phone...... but now i regret it
what do i do?
We've been out about 5 times... over the past two years.
the longest has bean 9 months.. and that was the most recent.
we've tried
dating other people ( seeing each other)
Being just friends
being together...
and nothing seems to work.
now hes gone forever........... he admitted he used me but if that was the case, why did he use me for that lonng?
i love him
2007-01-16 01:50:14 · 12 answers · asked by girlnextdoor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go to love yourself more babe
2007-01-16 01:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by ginger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 06:17:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh babe im right there with you right now, i was in a 7 year nightmare where he cheated lied cheated and lied again and all our relationship consisted of was tears and heartache, but i know even tho we are now apart that i still love him and hes the first person on my mind in the mornings and the last person i think of at night, but thankfully my head rules my heart now and i was strong enuf to walk away even tho it hurts. i still reach for the phone to text him something insignificant or go to drive past his house just to see if hes home but i stop myself now just by remembering the awful things he did to me. time is a great healer and it will be for you too. avoid sitting home alone, see more of your family and friends and soon he will be a distant memory that you wondered wot you ever saw in him. good luck babe.xxxx
2007-01-17 02:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by unhappy bunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men tend to want what they cant have and once they get it the grass is greener and vice versa...u now want what you cant have and you love the idea of him and probably not him as a person.
Its gonna take a while but there will definatly be a better guy out there for you.
Take care and remember its not your fault
2007-01-16 01:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He used you for that long, because you allowed him too. You deserve better than this and although it hurts like hell at the moment you will look back at this one day and think differently. get yourself out meeting new people and find some one thats going to treat you with respect for a happy long relationship.
2007-01-16 02:01:59 · answer #5 · answered by jdlover 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god! Stay away from this guy please! Getting back into a relationship with him could seriously affect all your future realtionships in a bad way!
You've not tried gone forever yet so see how that goes.
plus, life's too short for regrets. You were unhappy with him so be happy, without him.
xxxx
2007-01-16 01:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by becbark 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but he used you for so long because you let him. You need to cut off all communication with this loser, your friend gave you good advice. Trust me, just move on and take care of yourself because he is not the one.
2007-01-16 07:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is nothing but just a lust according to that guy. pls dont regret for him.what has happened to you is just an accident just forget about it.let start your life to live for urself.remember that somewhere or the other your prince is waiting for you to hold your hands.....At one day he will appears before you. ,Join ur hands with him(the person whom u r going to marry) to live before the guy who dissed you.
2007-01-16 02:16:09 · answer #8 · answered by cuckoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time, give yourself time, you'll heal and get over him and wonder what all the fuss was about! You'll find someone who will really appreciate you for who and what you are and then you'll see what a real s**t you're ex was.
2007-01-16 01:56:41 · answer #9 · answered by blue_sapphire07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he admitted using you,then that is a clear sign that he did. You need to move on and start to love yourself more. If he used you then he didn't love you. Come on sweetie,use your head.
2007-01-16 01:57:07 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No man is worth your tears,and the one who is wont make you cry
2007-01-16 01:56:53 · answer #11 · answered by man with the golden gun 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋