how do you get a ex b/f back?

Question

I love my ex b/f so much and I no what im talking about!How do i get him back again!If yall ever loved someone alot and yall broke up yall no how i feel?Please Help

Answer 1

I'm sorry, I don't have an answer for you. But I can tell you that reading the Bible has helped me understand that there are times in life when the best thing you can do is to go off to a quiet place to pray. If you read the Bible, you will see that Jesus was often distressed, and every time he was distressed he went to a quiet place to pray to His Father. Pray for your lost love, pray for yourself, pray for your heart to be healed, and then do something towards healing it, once God has revealed to you what you need to do things get better, if you take the effort to make things better.

Answer 2

I don't exactly know the circumstances so I can't tell you that it's a good thing or a bad thing. But I can tell you that breaking up with anyone is hard. I've been in a similar situation, where I broke up with him and then a few days later regretted it. I got through it and chances are you will, too. But yeah, anyways. It's all in how you take the situation. I do have a question... who broke up with who? did that person state a reason? why do you want them back? Think a bit (not a long time) about these questions and just see where that goes. It might not make much sense to ask yourself this. But I don't know. There is one more thing that you could do. You could always just ask for another chance.

Answer 3

First, ask yourself how long have you been apart. Are you bored and afriad of being alone. If he is your "ex", he is your "ex" for a reason. You can still love a person even once you have broken up. The question is that you want to get him back, so what does he want? Time heals all wounds. It's probably not what you want to hear but God works in mysterious ways and if things are meant to be, they will be... in time. Otherwise, continue living your life, don't shut the door for someone that you may meet that you will fall in love with that will equally love you in return.

Answer 4

Are you sure you want the ex-boyfriend back? Maybe you're just having trouble moving on. I hung out w/an old boyfriend recently, and it didn't take long before I realized why I wanted to get away from him the first time. You're probably over-looking qualities in this man that you disliked. Consider whether and why you think he's changed or improved before you leap back to the past. There's always other guys...always have been...and always will be. Take things slow at least if you're determined to go farther. You don't want to protray yourself as the 'desperate ex-girlfriend' that'll accept anything. Good Luck

Answer 5

Odds are pretty good that you should move on and not try to get him back. Believe me, you broke up for a reason!! I've gotten back together with someone in the past - and I was even worse when it did not work the second time around. Just let it go and move on - you sound young and there will be LOTS of guys in your future and wasting time on a dead end street is a needless mistake.

Answer 6

It depends on how it happened...there is limited info to work with so excuse the bluntness...

If: He dumped you?
Ask yourself why and if you can answer that question, tell him you're sorry and you understand. Dont be obsessive, just graceful, if he doesnt want you back, he's not comming back


If: You left him?
Apolagize and ask if you can make it up to him (mention getting back together in the future)


from experience, I know how you feel... I had a girl for a year and 6 months to find that she was cheating on me and had lied to me from day 1. She also acts like she hates me, but I know she's having trouble with friends and family.

Answer 7

well,i love my ex bf as much too but there might be a reason behind why u guys break.just like mine.now,my ex and i r good friends.i think.we text and talk alot !!why don u just stay as friends with ur ex and get to know each other better and if it is really mean to be together.he will be yours wif a better understanding one day but if it does not,even if you take him back.the same thing will happen.just take things cool and easy.if not,the friendship still remains.

i will give you a real life story a cabbie uncle told me.he told me that he knew his wife when he was in secondary school but he broke off with her twice and the second time was very serious.he tries to hurt her as much.but in the end ,they still became husband and wife.see so what is yours is yours??no matter what it will still be yours!!

Answer 8

First, find out if he wants you back, then you can go back with him easy. But if he doesn't, then its no way to get him back. Everything broke up, move on, can't go back to it. If you really love him so much and want to do something that worth it. Be friend with him again, get know him seriously and have him know you too, maybe learn something that you changed ( i dont know if you had changed). Find the right time and explain to him that you want him back and hope he willing to try it out one more time. IF he said no, all you have to move on and think positive. There are a ton guys out there!

Answer 9

I've went through this and if it is meant to be, it will be eventually. Sometimes timing isn't always what you want it to be. On the other hand, there is a reason he is an ex in the first place, why go through the drama again?

Answer 10

If he is your "ex" then it's obvious things didn't work out so why would you want him back? Depending on the situation it ended, if you really do want him back then just tell him you would like to give it another chance before you close the doors altogether. Good Luck