She hangs up phone and is not happy. Should n't she be happy with any lending I would give. Then she says that is hardly anything. What do you think. Been together 1 yr.
2007-01-16 01:37:03 · 11 answers · asked by boshie 2 in Business & Finance ➔ Credit
this a situation for you and you alone but... here are some questions you need to ask yourself. does she know what i make? is my 200-300 stretching my budget? do i trust her enough to give her a $300 loan. are any of these bills yours? 300 for bills that arent yours is very nice and resonable! is she scraping by or is she blowing her money and then getting yours. i would personally be a little mad at the fact she hung upon you and if you dont trust her....dump her!
2007-01-16 01:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by nate_15_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad credit is one of the worst problems to have... however there exists a solution.
I will hereby talk from my personal experience.
I did debt consolidation a couple of years ago, however If I had to do it again I would pay to some minor details,
if someone wants to get out of debt today it is pretty easy with a debt consolidation plan, however it may get a bit tricky at times, I suggest you get as much information as possible online on this first,
a good place to start in my humble opinion is astraight to the point ebook with question and answer I found :
http://umgarticles.atspace.com/debt-consolidation.htm
if it helps kindly remember me in your voting!.. cheers!
2007-01-18 17:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by gabriel jones 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you pay off her debt?
Youve offered £200-300 to her and shes been so ungrateful about it. That is out of order!
You shouldnt give her anything and if she tries to end the relationship then we all know what her intentions were......!!!
2007-01-16 01:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by Flower Power 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was your wife, I would say suck it up and pay it off. Since she is only your girlfriend, you need to consider your personal finances above hers.
If you have the extra discretionary income and would not put ANY hardship on you, I would consider doing it. You need to put some stipulations about not happening again, this is the last time, etc.
Besides, she may be very grateful... If You know what I mean.
wink wink wink....
:)
2007-01-16 01:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by Culture Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How serious are you about her? If this is someone you're thinking about making a future with, it would seem to only make sense to relieve her stress about debt. If it's someone you're only playing with "until the right one comes along", then let her go!
After a year together I'm sure she's thinking on a long term basis, while you seem to be thinking in short term mode.
2007-01-16 01:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by Kim K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WHAT? Why will have to you aid a female friend? You don't seem to be married to her, she desires to make you dependable for her. Were you set on the earth to end up her slave, a sugar daddy? Don't present her some thing. She's using on you. Borrow your pc? Oh no, no, no. If you desire to rather reduce to rubble your lifestyles, cross forward.
2016-09-07 21:06:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its her debt let her pay for it....All I can say is gold digger! I think any offer you make to her she should be grateful for. You shouldnt have to pay her bills, and you shouldnt have to deal with her attitude especially for trying to help. It just shows what kind of person she really is.
2007-01-16 01:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by Nolagirl83 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was very kind of you to offer to help and she should be grateful for it and since she isn't you should let her bail herself out of it.
2007-01-16 01:45:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
""take a look at my girlfriend, girlfriend she is the only on i got"
again "take a look at my girlfriend, girlfriend she is the only on i got
2007-01-16 06:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's a moneygrubber.
2007-01-16 01:44:59 · answer #10 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋