I cant figure it out.. I am a single women very independent, down to earth, low maintance... very out going... so why cant I find a nice guy??? I the guys I meet have been jerks... all they want to do is lay around and be catered too... I am a single parent and have two kids to care for .. I dont need a third one...gosh guys are stupid sometimes... why is that .. dont they see that I am a good women.... I broke up with my boyfriend a minth ago.. cause I had to pull teeth just to take me out....I am about to give up--- any single parents out there? what do you do???
2007-01-16 00:41:30 · 16 answers · asked by ceemagiclydia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are tons of nice guys out there. Maybe you are trying to meet them in the wrong places. Just keep looking.
2007-01-16 00:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a single parent of a 2 year old boy and I dont look for any guys. I set my mind frame that I dont want a guy around the house. Because when you stop looking so hard he'll be right under your nose. try it. Why do you wanna rush into a relationship when only a month ago you got outta one???? Focus more on your kids and not your sexual pleasures.
2007-01-16 08:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by jdnsmama1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up all together but maybe don't try looking so hard. Good things come along when you least expect them to. Why not take a break and just enjoy your kids right now. Spend time with friends and in time I'm sure you will find the right guy. Good Luck
2007-01-16 08:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try dating yourself for a while. Take yourself to a movie. Give yourself an hour with a masseuse, buy yourself that outfit you've had your eye on.
Just relax, take a deep breath and take a break from dating guys for a while. There are plenty of good ones out there, but you have to be "in a good place" when they cross your path or it will never work. And don't look too hard, HE will find YOU.
2007-01-16 09:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by blabla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, single parent of 4 here. Personally I DON'T look for THAT guy. Just let it flow. If you look for it - its always gon be on your mind and with every guy you meet your gon have raised expectations. The reality is 75-80% of they guys you meet are NOT gon even come close. It all depends on what you want in your life at the moment. Personally I am very content with friends with benefit relationships so I only have expectations of getting mines and him getting his. Pure and simple!! If your looking for love and commitment....well thats a tough order to fill with your eyes WIDE open.
2007-01-17 13:23:07 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sad part is Hon that even though you are a nice woman, most guys get scared off when you have children. They don't want the responsibility of an "instant family". Keep looking, you will find some one who will love both you and your kids.
2007-01-16 08:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by Erica R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where were you when I was dating? Seriously, my wife is high maintenance, had been caught doing things a married women shouldn't be doing, and is lazy as hell. I feel like a single parent of three myself, but one of my children is an indigent wife.
Trust me, there are nice guys out there, you jut have to keep looking!!
2007-01-16 08:53:09 · answer #7 · answered by Cyber Stalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plz keep calm urself n wait 4 the chance.since u r a single parent,u've to support ur 2 kids,do u still got spare time to relax urself with the outside world?if yes,then u can sometimes go to karaoke with friends,friend's birthday party n dancing party,try to broaden ur life boundary.one day u should get the chance u r waiting 4.so be patient,ok?
2007-01-16 08:58:40 · answer #8 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not listeing to your heart. Hear the ticking. If it ain't beating for some Guy? he ain't for you. Being Social. And being in Love. Is from the other ends of the City. Don't mix the two. Men are Pigs, until we get a dose of our own medicine. R-E-S-P-E-C-T. Aretha was right!
2007-01-16 08:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to slow down and relax about it you need to find someone you can grow with so look for the qualities before you look for the actual relationship. Find that person that just want to be your talk to person your want to share a laugh with person that I am having a bad day person. You can experiment on me if you would like lets just chat you have some free time this morning?
2007-01-16 08:53:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋