If I like someone, should I tell them?
Even when I show him no signs of
actually liking him?
He doesn't know, but I don't want him to say
"eww; gross" when I tell him...what should I do?
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2007-01-16 00:34:13 · 9 answers · asked by Shauna. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u know instead of telling him try to creae a situation where he first starts noticing n liking u........
simple trick : arouse ur interest in him coz there is thi sayin which i beleive in :
"ur interest in him will arouse his interest in u"
try staring at him for some tyme n if he notices dat see elsewhere wid a shy smile.........
u can even crash into him sometime behaving as if u never knew he was there........
try ur skills gurl........
after all gurl's attitude is gurls power
2007-01-16 00:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by crazyash 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone seems to be the expert on saying, "Be yourself." To be honest if you aren't giving off any emotional vibe (with the be yourself) then there's a good chance he will overlook you. Guys are drawn to the physical first and other stuff comes later. You will hear other guys saying different answers but I guarantee that 95% are bull. I don't know you so I got nothing to prove to you.
Attraction first. You know the routine for it. Don't try too hard but if you have some semi casual wear that show your best features off then I recommend it.
Please notice that I didn't say wear something revealing. Wear something really revealing if you just want him to sleep with you.
Talk with him as you normally do. Be witty if you see an opportunity for it. Try to see what this dude is about besides his looks. Folks like him probably get hit on a lot by dumb girls who forget themselves when they see him. He'll probably appreciate any interesting & sincere opinion you got.
Guys tend to like the chase so don't make yourself too unavailable or available when you mention your lack of weekend plans.
Good Luck
2007-01-16 08:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by Static__Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's using phrases like "Gross". You're much too young to be seeing this as Love. You have a need to be around him. That ain't Love, Sweety. That's just not wanting to be alone. I'm old enough to be your Father. I know what NOT to do. Don't say Love. Until you know what it is. And you are so far from learning that. You're Heart will tell you when that's gonna happen. Not now!
2007-01-16 08:40:23 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just be good friends first and take it from there? If you really like him, let him know. You can do this other then telling him. Smile at him alot, do things for him. Or why not have a friend hint around to him? Good Luck
2007-01-16 08:41:00 · answer #4 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if u like him you should tell him the worst thing he could say is NO and every body say no so u should tell him.
2007-01-16 08:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by ASULITA_313 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling someone that you like them is always scary. But if you never tell them then you will never know.
2007-01-16 08:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi
i think it will be wisely to tell him
maybe he doesn't like you and a one way love fails most of he time
2007-01-16 09:06:27 · answer #7 · answered by bp9770 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we guys r so smart, spically when girls show off..
so i guess he notice ur sign, so don't do anything more.. if he likes u, he will come to u :)
good luck
2007-01-16 08:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by SAM 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do not tell him, do not demean yourself
2007-01-16 08:37:52 · answer #9 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋