I have just split with my girlfriend of 6 months. Things were ok to start off with then all we did was keep rowing and making up and rowing and makingup. The girl was evil and nasty to me and i still kept going back for more even though i knew it wasnt right. We have finally ended it after a massive argument and i absolutely hate and detest her, i want to get revenge on her and make her life as miserable as she has made mine. I know it will only make matters worse for me but i just want to make her life a misery. She has been evil and manipulative and damn right rude to me over the past 5 months, God only knows why i stayed in the first place, i am angry at myself for it, but would revenge really make me feel better? I have laughed at her sad little life in the past and know i should just think of it like that as that is the revenge, as she has lost something that could of changed her life for the better but i cant help feeling i want to do something. Please help me.
2007-01-16 00:28:31 · 14 answers · asked by Revenge 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the best thing you can do is get a clean break from her and forget all about it. you are your own person and shouldn't have gone back to her.
learn from your mistakes.
2007-01-16 00:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
These feelings of revenge are natural...honestly. It's a basic human instinct. It can feel so powerful and overwhelming.
If you can hold back, this feeling will start to fade.
The best revenge really is to get on with your life and be happy. Try to focus on looking in front of you and not behind.
Ask yourself is it worth wasting all this negative energy on her and making yourself feel bad at the same time.
Turn that pent up energy inside you into something positive and expend it in a way that brings you happiness.
Best wishes
2007-01-16 08:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you just go on with your life and find someone better no revenge trust me it comes back if you leave with out doing revenge she will feel like in a strange sick way that you don't love her people that do revenge are still in love and rather childish about it when you walk away with out giving her what she wants you'll look like the best person about it and she will feel like she was so unworthy that you didn't even love her enough to try to piss her off so act cool go on with your life best wishes!!!
2007-01-16 09:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're mad bcoz you're hurt an you wanna lash out to make her feel as bad as you do chicks. I've been there an believe me revenge will make you feel good for about 5 mins. You're still gonna feel the hurt, its not jus gonna disappear! It's time you need. Just remember you are gonna be a stronger person after you get over this! Go out wit friends n try have a laugh. Good luck chicks x x x
2007-01-16 08:43:53 · answer #4 · answered by Dolly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might make you feel better in the short term to take revenge but you will still feel bad afterwards.
Just stay as far away from her as possible, the best revenge is to go out and enjoy yourself, find someone that makes you happy, and show her your life is so much better without her.
2007-01-16 08:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by scragette2000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your best revenge is to ignore her-thus showing her that she has no affect on you whatsoever. By doing some form of nasty revenge,though it may hurt her-it will also serve to show her how hurt you are and that she still has an impact on your life. Don't wan't the evil cowbag thinking that,do you? Ignore her-that will hurt her more than anything.
2007-01-16 08:35:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Revenge doesn't make people feel better. Use your mind to figure out what qualities you would rather have in a girlfriend and start looking for someone with those traits.
2007-01-16 08:57:13 · answer #7 · answered by bluejasmine3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey there , I'm so sorry you were treated so badly. but not all girls are like that i promise you. the best revenge you could have on her is go out have fun meet a nice girl and enjoy your life, I'm afraid at the moment she has won if all your doing is thinking about her , even if it is just for revenge. believe me go out have fun and just remember she lost out on a good thing not you , and your now free to find someone who will respect you. us girls hate it when our ex's are happy , so go get yourself a stunning new girl or play the field, that's the best revenge. good luck x
2007-01-16 08:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by lyndsey h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants that ;) and you are acting just the way she wants you to act.. so stop this.. and forget revenge, revenge is not a solution and never been, it just make things worst and make you feel worst.. believe me ive been in that situation be4.
the best thing to do is to move on with your life, it was only 5 months, you have lived all of your life ( your age - 5 months ) without her. and i believe that there are alot of girls all around the world and willl be lucky to have ya..
good luck
2007-01-16 08:39:04 · answer #9 · answered by Princesa De Muerte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might not feel this way yet, but I promise you the best revenge is just not giving a f*ck. That will piss her off more than anything.
2007-01-16 08:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, don't blame her. She only did what you allowed her to do. Don't blame her that she was evil. There are many evil people out there. Blame yourself for allowing her to be evil and manipulative.
The best thing you could do is put her out of your mind, let it go. Ignoring her would even be worse than wishing her harm. Don't let the thought of her to continue to manipulate you. Let it go.
2007-01-16 08:34:26 · answer #11 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋