i live in a house with 6 other people and i just got told that no one likes me except my bf. i was thinking about moving out and living with my mother. if i do i have to change schools and quit my job.
2007-01-16 00:18:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I wouldn't quit my job or change schools. I'd stay right where you are right now. Don't let these people push you around. If they don't like you that's their problem. Don't have anything to do with them, just go about your life as if they were nobodys.
They probably want you to move so they can have someone else move into the house in your place.
Another thought: You could tell them all, if you want me to move, help me find another living arangement nearby so that you don't have to change schools or quit your job. You may be surprised how much they are willing to help you do this.
2007-01-16 00:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take it as a positive feedback and work towards that direction. Ask yourself why and how can you improve yourself. It;s true we don't need people to like us because that's their problem. But by reacting back means you're no difference from them. And if everyone behaves like this then what will this world become. You show a concern because there must be something good about them too. You like the place so why should you move out. To stay there means you need to work something out and it should start from you.
2007-01-20 08:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by White Wings F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares if the other people don't like u as long as ur bf likes u thats all that should count. But as far as moving out if u think its the best way to get out of the situation then go for it if not then stay.
2007-01-16 08:22:54 · answer #3 · answered by sweety_8620 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you haven't explained why they don't like you but i can say dislike is a good place to start from.You need to have a house meeting and an open forum where they will tell you everything they dislike about you.It might be painfull but even when you decide to move on you will be a better person.You can also work on your interpersonal behaviour like sharing your stuff and respecting peopel's peace.Just treat them and treasure them the way you do your BF.Think of it you will lose more when you move out than when you saty and resolve your issues.
2007-01-16 09:08:27 · answer #4 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you move out and live alone or with your b/f? No need to change schools and quit your job. SDounds like too drastic of a change.
2007-01-16 08:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by JiveSly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure wouldn't stay where no one likes me. You are better off without then. Good luck.
2007-01-16 08:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by sweetnorma66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay where you are,Dont worry about the other ppl.Do it for you not them.
2007-01-16 08:25:49 · answer #7 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u do wut feels right and that u can feel comfortable around that enviroment, i suggest u move out, but then again im really not sure wuts happening in ur life =/
2007-01-16 08:23:47 · answer #8 · answered by Johnny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't they like you??? maybe you should see about changing... :D
2007-01-16 08:24:20 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋