what should i do my boyfriend said that we should just be friends and i agreed but the only reason why he wants to do it is because he wants to persue one of his old friend that has a 2 year old son. he wants me to be his friend no matter what. but i want to be with him still and i dont know if i can be his friend if hes with another girl. what should i do?? please help
2007-01-16 00:01:54 · 13 answers · asked by alaina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U have to respect him cause at least he cares enough about u to not just leave u on the curb. It will not be easy to be his friend but in the long run it will probably be worth being friends with him. Maybe u should still be friends but take a break from seeing him or talking to him until it stops hurting. u will find someone else better n e way
2007-01-16 00:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by aspen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is asking you to take a back seat. Helloooooo
Do you not deserve the front seat.
Tell him to take the next train and leave..
You do not need friendships with boys who are so immature..
He wants to keep you hangin so if this doesn't work out that he can have you as a back up. Pleaseeeeeee....
Give him his walking papers.
You do not need his friendship and it would not be healthy for you.
You need to cancel your subscription to this looser and find a new guy.
He is an idiot for thinking he can play this game with you.
Do not sit by and take this load of cr*p from him.
You deserve something good, whole and true.
Go and find it, cause it isn't in this package that you have.
2007-01-16 00:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should terminate both the relationship and the friendship, I think he wants to pursue a relationship with his old girlfriend and have you around to lean on.. LET HIM KNOW THIS "YOU ARE NOT A SECOND HAND PLATE AT HIS TABLE"...is either you as a girlfriend or the other one.. he could be friends with his girlfriend. You don't need that kind of humilliation. Move on is my adivice outthere is someone who is going to treat you as what you should be "THE ONLY WOMAN IN HIS LIFE"... GOOD LUCK HON.
2007-01-16 00:10:44 · answer #3 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be either the girlfriend or the friend this guy is not worth it. dumping you to chase another is not on. The friendship line is a weak but gentle way of letting you down it is also a ploy to keep you available should his chase fail. He wants it all dont give it to him move on
2007-01-16 00:07:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing really that u can do at this point. sorri to say but he does not want 2 b with u, u can not force him to b in a relationship with u if he doesn't. as far as being friends with him, why would u want to do that? i would say if he breaks up with u, then move on with ur life.
2007-01-16 00:22:58 · answer #5 · answered by sweet143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to use us for a poke now and then or when the other women won't. If that's okay with you then go for it, but if not then move on.
2007-01-16 00:19:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea hes probaly just going to use u so move on ive had a girl do it to me trust me it will hurt really bad
2007-01-16 00:09:24 · answer #7 · answered by bloody illusions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be his friend, but find another boyfriend.
2007-01-16 00:07:54 · answer #8 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go and move on with your life....he doesn't love you so don't waste anymore of your time thinking about him...good luck
2007-01-16 00:05:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him have her--go get yourself a guy that won't do this to you.
2007-01-16 00:07:15 · answer #10 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋