I am turning 30 in 7 days, Why Is this bothering me so much???
I am serious it is bothering me alot, my husband asked me what I wanted to do for it & I said nothing, & that is really want I want, is to do nothing at all, turning 25 bothered me a little & 29 did alot, But turning 30 is really really bothering me & I have no clue why.......HELP it is drving me crazy & I know I am drving my husband nutz with it as well
2007-01-15 23:00:20 · 17 answers · asked by bite_me_harder_28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I welcome your question. There can be many reasons which can drive you crazy for your coming to 30. First, May be you worry of ur beauty. But remember beauty always fades. Second, you may be in such a profession where age really matters. Thirdly, you might be expecting yourself at certain level in your social and in your career at perticular age and you haven't achieve that till today. That thing for sure can bother you also. Forth, you should find out wihtin you that with what object you are really comparing your on going age? It is you only can have reply of your own question.
Remember, time never comes back, its a universal fact and everyone who borns gets older and dies. Why you need to bother too much of your age? Life is short also and life is long also and it depends how you take it. You came in this world with nothing and you gonna take back nothing too, than why worry of age ? Live your fulliest with pink heart. With on going age people always recognised by their dids only not by age. You shoud turn yourself to think and do better with your heart and soul. Live with true heart for yourself, your family and friends by keeping age a side and I am sure you will come out of botheration of age. Try to share your inner problems with your husband and best friend and sure you will come out from any botheration.
Wish you all the best...Live Fulliest With Cherished Heart
2007-01-15 23:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by Yuvraj Jadeja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend,
Everyone goes through the awful feeling of turning older. We're only mortals, but sometimes we wish we weren't. I'm sure you are indeed very bothered about hitting the big three oh, but do you want to remember this milestone as a sad event??
Come on gurl, you got it going good. Worrying will only make you feel and look older. So change your mood by going for a relaxing spa (spend the day at the spa) before your birthday, and go out and have some fun with your husband.
Try to take up something new this year. Yoga sounds great. Trust me, you'll love it. It will make you feel younger, lighter, and more focused at work and relax you when you need to feel relaxed.
I felt awful when I turned a year older, and yoga is what I took up.
God Bless You and Happy Birthday. Be Happy Always.
2007-01-16 07:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by Yvonne Mystic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through this same situation. I will be 30 on Feb. 10th. I don't think there is a way to not drive your husband nuts about it until you feel better about it. I can't tell you how to feel better about it because I don't know your status. I know it's bothering me because I'm not where I should be in life right now ( financially )and I have too much to accomplish still.
Also,I've changed my eating habits, started exercising, and lost alot of weight because I am worried about getting older. Alot of little things are bothering me too. I had a nervous breakdown a week ago and still don't understand why.
I really hope you feel better. This is very hard to deal with.
2007-01-16 07:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by ▒♥▒♥▒♥▒♥▒™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did the same thing when I turned 30!!!! So dont feel alone, heaps of people feel the same way. I think the best thing to do(well, what I did, and it worked) is make a pact with yourself to change some aspect of your life. Like - If you always wanted to do a course or gain some qualifications, or you want to make more time for yourself...... You will be surprised how it takes your mind off the milestone while you are thinking/planning what you want to do. Not only that, but you will be doing something constructive for yourself, instead of just having a breakdown!!!
2007-01-16 07:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by Eve M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from someone who is 66!! don't let it bother you! think back, was there something you wanted to do by the time you were older as a child you have not yet done? It may be that in the back of your mind you know that you haven't done that and if you find that, then realize you did other things as well, like getting married.
2007-01-16 07:10:00 · answer #5 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it`s because when you were younger you had dreams and goals and you feel time has run out? Cheer up did`nt you know 30 the new 20 have another bite at the cherry look forward with the enthusiasm of a 20yr old its how you feel inside i know its hard BUT JUST GET ON WITH IT!!
2007-01-16 08:46:02 · answer #6 · answered by Andrew A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you turn 40!!lol No, you should enjoy being 30. Thats definetely not old and if you sit and worry about it, you'll age quicker. Dont drive yourself crazy over this. Age is just a number. Its how you feel, so stop before you feel like your 70.
2007-01-16 07:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by pebbles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thirty is a hard number for people. Surround yourself with friends and family and ask them how they coped.
Why you're letting it bother you, some people are not fortunate enough to see the age 30.
2007-01-16 07:05:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its a part of life..... getting old. You can't stop it unless you die or kill yourself..Outside of that, yeah, I felt depressed about getting older although I was approching 40. Turning 30 is not bad. Its not old. Hopefully you have plenty years ahead. Worry when you get 40! and grey hairs start to appear!
2007-01-16 07:08:35 · answer #9 · answered by D. D. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:O
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Well first of all Many Many Happy Returns of the day(in advance)!
I have heard that "Never ask a woman about her age"!
But here she is telling without any provocation!
Don't be so panic.We all are ageing!
Cheer up.
2007-01-16 07:09:43 · answer #10 · answered by dipu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋