Her bad experience,has made her not trust anybody..how do you make her trust you. Or how do u make her feel that you care about her.?
2007-01-15 22:55:13 · 10 answers · asked by Ray 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
one of the best solution from personal experience is to make them laugh.help them through whtever their sufferin.stay with them.support them.It actually depends upon wht the bad experience was.But making them feel good about themselves always helps.give them hope.show how much you care for them.Be expressive.I really appreciate that you like to help her out Hope u r successful .all da best.
2007-01-15 23:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You give them time. Build a relationship. Trust has to be built. Let your actions speak for you. After a while they will open up, maybe tell you about the bad experience. If you're into church Juanita Bynum has an excellent testimony about trusting her husband and her struggles because of her past hurts. It's included in the the book "show me how to love you" A good read for men.
2007-01-16 07:01:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, you cannot get close with someone whose had a bad experience if they are resistant still. It takes time to heal these types of inner wounds. To become closer with this individual I'd suggest being her friend, becoming her listener, and standing by her side. Trust will bring closeness and if you're patient, closeness will occur naturally on it's own between the two.
2007-01-16 07:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by ▒♥▒♥▒♥▒♥▒™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do special things for her and tell her how special she is. Be there for her and always have her back. If something comes up that seems to set her off then you need to talk to her immediately to clear things up, don't let it fester. I will never trust anyone again 100% but I am starting to learn to open up a little.
2007-01-16 07:01:50 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello, you earn trust. after awhile she will learn to trust again. if you really like her give her time.good luck, and you will earn her trust. i came out of a bad marriage,cheated on,beat you name it ,and now i am remarried.i never thought that i would trust a man again. with god all things are possible
2007-01-16 07:13:10 · answer #5 · answered by foxie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
build up trust slowly, Trust is earned by trusting one another. Don't do anything until she wants you to.
2007-01-16 07:01:01 · answer #6 · answered by howardlee1977 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont make her trust you, that will never happen, talking and reassuring will allow her to feel more comfortable to want to trust, but you must realize that she will always be wanting to protect herself, just in various degrees.
2007-01-16 06:59:40 · answer #7 · answered by lo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away
especially if she's over 30
there's plenty of fish in the sea
you dont need to fix someone elses mess... unless you are waaay ugly and cant get anyone else.
2007-01-16 06:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a big moutain that you have chose for yourself. You must take it slow and beware of bad weather.
2007-01-16 06:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by rastus7742 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off don't rush her into anything. Be kind and take good care of her. She'll come around :)
2007-01-16 06:59:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋