food for thought:
Holding on to the bitterness of childhood only destroys dreams
In adulthood. ccje
Read : Who Moved My Cheese, it is on the internet. it is a story on moving with change.
THE HANDWRITING ON THE WALL
Change Happens
They Keep Moving the Cheese
Anticipate Change
Get Ready For the Cheese to Move
Monitor Change
Smell the Cheese Often So You Know When It Is Getting Old.
Adapt To Change Quickly
The Quicker You Let Go Of Old Cheese, The Sooner You Can Enjoy New Cheese.
Change
Move with the Cheese
Enjoy Change!
and one last one I wrote this one
Follow Your Yellow Brick Road
By
Jackie Edwards
Following your yellow brick road may not be easy but it will be worth the effort.
Follow your dreams on your yellow brick road.
It starts with a thought of what you want out of your life.
Think about that for a minute.
What does “live your life mean to you”?
Is it just sitting around waiting for things to happen, or does it mean
Going out and trying your best to make things happen.
For me it is getting on my yellow brick road that God put before me.
Making that first step is always the longest, but that is the first step of putting you on the right road.
The first thing you have to do is find the road.
That could be the hardest thing you will ever have to do.
I wish there was a map to show the road to everyone,
But that map is only in your own heart.
You just have to find it.
Your search beings with knowing Gods principles of life,
And those are the 10 commandments given to us.
Next thing you have to do is extract your talents.
We all have talents we just have to find them,
Search for them, express them.
Talent is in everyone, so it is in you too.
Maybe it is only one thing, well find that one thing and follow it.
It will put you on your yellow brick road.
2007-01-15 22:26:19
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answered by jeeccentricx2 5
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You are not paranoid. You are a person that experiences paranoia. Do you see the difference? You are a person not a diagnosis. You are a loner, because you make choices to be alone. I suggest finding a psychiatrist that will treat you as a person with paranoia, not as a paranoid. Once you have started to feel better from her/his treatment then you will feel more like being around people.
Who told you that you have small breasts? Compared to whom? You are more than the sum of your parts, or better yet, you are more important than your parts. There are many men that prefer a smaller size.
Sucky personality? Again, who's the judge? If you feel this way about yourself, then I say change your record. You are telling yourself that you have a sucky personality. How about telling yourself that you are not so bad after all, and then after some time, tell yourself that you have a good personality. We believe what we tell ourselves (self talk and self fulfilling prophecy). Also, don't listen to the past voices in your head - a relative that told you that you were no good, or had small breasts. They were wrong, it's time to take back your life from your past.
As far as a vocation, I suggest a good personality test that gives examples of vocations suitable for your personality (there are no bad personality types, only different types). A therapist can most likely help with this (there are some pastors that give these too). After you get back the results, check them over and make a plan to attack your first choice. If you get into that choice and it starts to suck, move on to your next favorite. You will find you're niche, and when you do, you'll love it, you'll love you, and you'll be ready to love someone else and receive their love in return. Go for it!!
2007-01-15 23:00:31
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answered by Dino 4
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i would tell you to like yourself but that is easier said than done, try to make gradual changes, you need to learn to accept yourself. i have never had alot of confidance, but then self confidance never come to anyone on a plate self confidance comes through trying, i left school with no qualifactions, had a very critical stepfather, a mother who did not want me, but i have gone to university to study art, nominated for student of the year, collected my award off the lord mayor, now i am doing a degree in psychology, but i still get blights of lacking confdance. you have to tell yourself you can and dismiss negative thoughts becuase you can and you will. read joyce meyer,s confidant woman and go to the website association for low self esteem they are very good. We have to renew our minds and undo some of the damage that been done. Forget your parents its your life now. you don,t wastn to look back at your life and regret now following your dreams. Your make a great designer or singer if you work hard at it. take care God bless he loves you you are special.
2007-01-15 22:26:29
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answered by denise g 2
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Hey hey hey don't bottle up yourself with grief. You write beautifully in-spite of being disturbed. So there in one minute i have found two goods in you.
Beautiful language and expression
and wanting to do something. Most of us in our adolescent pass thru such phases of insecurities. Thin is in - so i suggest you drop the idea of any surgery. Personality and worth comes from within - groom yourself slowly and tenderly to be an achiever. Friends and boys will follow in time.
But first of all change your name fm sorrow to sunshine or spring and feel the difference. CHEER UP !
2007-01-15 22:37:11
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answered by Rainbow 4
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hello dear dont get depressed for this small matter as it will not give u anything except sorrow and last month i too was depressed though i have asweet family i m 32 yr old and have 1 cute son but as both were busy in their own world i too was depressed but i have agood friend on net so i talk to him and i m fine if u need to talk to me i m there for u my email id is only for u its simranrajl@yahoo.co.in
i gave u my id becoz i have been in ur situation so maybe talking to me will make u feel better and dear dont loose confidence u r in this world becoz ur special so respect urself ,as if u dont respect urself noone will respect u and u said u want to be afashion designer and now also its not too late u can go for it ,and if u feel u will be comfortable talking to me u can mail me and add me in ur messenger list i will come online and talk to u so dear dont worry be happy.........
2007-01-15 22:28:25
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answered by simran 3
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No one else makes me consider vain, I do this to myself. On days whilst I am having a fairly dangerous discomfort day and can not get off the sofa to do some thing, I consider vain. I hate that feeling. I will say regardless that that there's one character who could make me consider vain and that is my Mother in Law. She is unbelieveable, she's in her eighty's and nonetheless works complete time and has extra vigor than me and my spouse positioned in combination. She has some way of claiming matters that make me consider vain. I have discovered to disregard it and no longer allow it get to me regardless that.
2016-09-07 22:58:20
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answered by scharff 4
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You may want to read this article http://nitzitry.notlong.com/ i found, will be useful also has info on different treatments and should help with your depression.
2007-01-16 11:43:44
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answered by Anonymous
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