i have been bi curious for a while now and my husband dont want to have a three some in fear of ruining our relationship.. the other night we went out with our friends and got drunk, they spent the night at our house so they didnt have to drive home drunk.. well i went to the bathroom and my best friend who is a girl came with me (which is normal) we ended up making out, and grabin each other, but thats it!! should i tell my husband??? i kinda want to cuz i feel guilty but i dont want to piss him off!!
2007-01-15 19:47:09 · 17 answers · asked by me m 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I have kissed another female in front of him and he did like it but he doesnt want me to explore my feelings for another woman, before when i made out with the girl in front of him it was just for fun, but now i got all these stupid feelings
2007-01-15 19:55:43 · update #1
me personally, i would tell him... would u want for him to keep something like this frm you?? didnt think so... so tell the man u shoulda told him when he was drunk, maybe he woulda forgot by morning.. good luck
2007-01-15 19:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by candyas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating whether you do it with a guy or a girl. You need to confess to him and then make sure it does not happen again. He would be mad if it was a guy, so just because it was a girl does not make it any better. You need to decide if you want to stay with your husband or not. Marriage vows mean you won't have sex with anyone else, regardless of gender. So, either divorce him so you can have all the 3somes you want, or get over it and love your husband.
2007-01-16 03:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by bashnick 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
He was honest with you and you cheated with your girlfriend. If it was harmless you wouldn't feel guilty. Tell him and next time lay off the booze if he forgives you.
2007-01-17 14:42:08 · answer #3 · answered by ooh2sweet2b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him. Open communication is the key to a good marriage.
2007-01-16 03:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by The Stig 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.
There is something in a female relationship that you do not find with your husband. Figure it out.
You can not change who you are
2007-01-16 03:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by J. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell him.
Honesty is a must in marriage.
2007-01-16 03:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by mia b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your want your marriage to work you should be honest with him. He will be mad but if you both care about your marriage then you can work it out.
2007-01-16 03:52:10 · answer #7 · answered by Dusty B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y do women think it is not cheating with women. If it was a man would you tell him or are living a lie
2007-01-16 03:53:50 · answer #8 · answered by Peter S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well perhaps you should tell him, but when you tell him remind him that you were drunk and your senses weren't fully functional. Good luck!
2007-01-16 03:50:55 · answer #9 · answered by Just Another Guy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well i think that you should tell him because every one has made a least one mistake and every one desire a second chance.
2007-01-16 03:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by sporty chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋