hello. i am having worries about the husband of my friend got divorce. when they are divorce last 2 months and the wife is close to me and we been sharing good times together like talking and other things she need to be companied by me. but i am worried and bit sad cause the husband comes the house and looks jealous and am afraid for the time he will hurt me physically and i dont like it.it makes me nervous for that. i want to comfort the wife and she needs it but still i want to give her but the distance from the husband makes me worried when he be here..
Help me what to do
2007-01-15 19:44:01 · 22 answers · asked by Adonis G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WHY DON'T YOU TALK TO YOUR HUSBAND ABOUT THIS?
2007-01-16 19:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
You have to really ask yourself "why" you need so much time to comfort her. Are you sure there aren't feelings involved there?
If so, you would serve the relationship they have better by keeping your distance. Otherwise, the husband might decide to follow you one day and just from observing might be able to tell that you do have feelings for her. You can imagine what he might do next!
Just remember there is a fine line between friendship and love. You need to take a step back and reconsider how you feel. It seems as if you're letting this drive you blind until one day you wake up and realize you did it to yourself. Don't be that guy!
2007-01-15 19:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by SirCharles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must talk over your fears with your friend and let her know how serious this is to you. Why does her husband have to come over anyway? If there are children involved then your friend and him can agree on him picking up the children at another location with her there. No way should he be allowed to come into your home especially if him being there is causing you some fear. Go to your local court house and talk to them about your concerns and see what they can advise you to do. Or move, even if it means living away from your friend. You life and peace of mind should be of upmost concern to you. Sounds as if your friend is imposing on your hospitality.
2007-01-16 02:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to avoid the times that the husband is going to come by. If she can't control that after 2 months then you may have to befriend her on the phone and away from the house.
2007-01-15 19:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him openly and honestly preferably in a public place where the two of you can talk without interuption. Be aware that even though they have divorced this man still has a history with this women and his ego will see you as her new beau regardless of your intentions.
2007-01-15 20:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by Barry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you and those toddlers might desire to run and not look lower back. This guy has severe administration matters and a eating project on the terrific option of it. If there is an possibility, you could desire to nonetheless circulate to counseling, yet living separate is the main secure element for you and those teenagers. truly, keeping them is what's significant. You have been separated and kissed yet another guy...oh properly. He might desire to recover from it. You saved in touch with the different guy. i assume so, your married to an fool and needed something extra, yet for some reason (in all probability 'Battered Womens Syndrome') you're nonetheless with him. RUN. you may make it. have confidence me, I had 4 infants on my very very own for extra suitable than a decade. i'm now married to the terrific guy in the international. My husband is my protector and defender. we adore to spend time mutually. yet once I say "i'm headin' out with John and we would be lower back later", that's the tip of it. we are able to be around absolutely everyone we elect to at any time and no person has to get any grief approximately it. Its referred to as a real dating. the place you recognize one yet another and love one yet another. i might run. actual, I actual have run from that mess which you're in now, and that i could not be happier. truly, get out whilst you could.
2016-10-07 05:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh, if you are afraid of your husband you would probably be better of divorcing him!!
No one should need to be afraid of violence, so leave before it goes over hand!!
2007-01-15 19:48:05 · answer #7 · answered by toxisoft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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