My uncle who is at the same time my landlord said that if I don't follow him and my parents, he will send me home and I will not be going to school anymore.
2007-01-15 19:39:14 · 5 answers · asked by connect 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First thing you should do is think about why they don't like him. What are the reasons they give? For instance, is the guy abusing you in some way? Are the reasons they give really true? (If he is abusing you, for instance, can you really admit it to yourself or have you become too emotionally dependent on him to be honest with yourself?)
Are the reasons they don't like him cultural, racial, or religious? Then you have to ask yourself if being with him is worth possibly losing the relationships you have with your parents and other relatives.
I think that you should start really thinking about the reasons they don't like him. It may just be bigotry or it may be because they can see something about him and/or the way he is treating you that you are unwilling to see and/or admit to yourself.
Also think about whether this guy means more to you then school does...and would you be able to see him anyway if your uncle made you go home?
If you think that what you stand to gain is worth more then what you could lose then go for your relationship with this guy.
2007-01-15 19:58:48 · answer #1 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit and think a while!why dont they like your boyfriend?is he indecent or doesnt want the best for you?only you would know if at all he is really really good for you
i have been dating my boyfriend for 17mths now and his parents stil dont want me and mine dont want him.not because we are terrible for each other, but because we are not from the same tribe.for a reason like that, we would never break up.all we r doing is holding on,enjoyin the relationship, and praying they finally agree.
if their reason was more cogent,i guess we would have reconsidred each other and broken up. we both know we are good for each other.we make each other happy and for that reason with others too,we are together til both parents look beyond their noses.
2007-01-16 03:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by beaume 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then forget him.... i have been that before, my parents doest like my bf but i still go on... i marry him and now my life is really missirable.. how i wish i could bring back the time... but if you think he is capable for your love then go on.... were not in the same situation.... our parents wanted the best for us... you can still find better. just hang in there and study hard ...
2007-01-16 03:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by great smile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying to raise you was tough enough, why would they want to raise your boyfriend too?
2007-01-16 04:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by PartyTime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one is worth estranging your family for. the relationship may not last forever, and then you're stuck without him or your family.
2007-01-16 04:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by bigwoodenhead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋