well to start it off im in highschool, and this is another drama filled love problem. Ok, so im best friends with two girls and there best friends too. But the two girls they like me, girl number obsesivly and number 2 not as much but still does. The thing is that i like girl number 2 back and they both know it too. Girl number one gets pissed off and says if she goes out with me then she wont be friends with either of us. Girl number 2 doesnt want that to happen so she trys to not get into anything, but she really wants too. Ive tried talking to girl number one and how thats not fair to us jsut because she cant get over me. But she doesnt care and now she has her whole family/ friends hating me. I dont know if i should just try to deal with the heart break or try to convince them more about it.
2007-01-15 19:08:12 · 8 answers · asked by ebutter36 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dont try to convince anyone of anything. Being a friend is a gift you give to someone..or to many people. You are only in high school and have the rest of your life ahead of you. Friends will come and go but eventually you will find good friends that will last. All this just sounds like kids stuff and I know you are a kid but you wont be for long.
2007-01-15 19:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart, girl number 2 likes you and you her. Ask her out. The other girl will have to deal with it. It's part of life and growing up. If her family hate you because you don't fancy her, then they need to do some growing up to. Just do what makes you happy not what others want you to do.
2007-01-16 03:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by SilverSurfer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like girl number one has alot of growing up to do! Is she really that good a friend if she is acting like this. Talk to girl number 2 and go for it with her! She sounds much more mature and as you actually like her it's more liekely to work out!
2007-01-16 03:14:24 · answer #3 · answered by ehc11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get girl #1 a boyfriend (even if you have to hire him). Once she has her own guy, she won't care (or feel she has the right) to keep girl #2 apart from you. Then later on, when her boyfriend breaks up with her, you guys will have been going out awhile. What is she going to do?
2007-01-16 03:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by truthseeker221 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had bad experiences dating friends so I would keep it at the level you have. Saying that Girl one does not sound like a friend at all. Don't let anyone emotionally blackmail you. You have to decide whether you want to be her friend either way. Good Luck
2007-01-16 11:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do, keep them as friends and nothing more. Find another girl who's doesn't have these hang ups.
2007-01-19 11:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ruin your friendships over this its not worth it when i was in high school i had a similar prob it all ended in tears and we all fell out and didnt ever get our friendships back just stay friends
2007-01-16 05:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by dee.jackson7@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with someone completely out of the triangle.
2007-01-19 18:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋