I met a married indian guy who was doing business in china with his wife in India. He kept telling me that his marriage was arranged and not a happy one. He said he loved me after meeting me. He looked handsome and like a good person. So not long later i fell for him as i had worked for him several times. I asked his Chinese worker whether he was a good man and she was all saying yes. So i was resting assured. This is my first love and i put much in it. We were together for over a year now, of course we didnt live together. and because he is quite busy with his business, we just came together from time to time. I hardly know his family and his friends. But now it seemed that he was not honest to me. I am quite sad and upset and want to take revenge on him, making him suffer from what he has done to me.
I cant bear being cheated and lied to. I was very depressed and my heart is breaking. I dont know what to do.
I am seeking help from help here, please give out ur opinion. Thanks!
2007-01-15 19:00:41 · 5 answers · asked by Jenny Ö 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You knew he was married and a cheat. Never take anyone's word on their marrital situation. If they are taken, wait until they are not taken. I am sorry that you were hurt in this relationship. I don't recommend revenge, because your life should not be about that. Move on and hold your head up high. Some day you will find the love you deserve. Don't lower yourself to trying to hurt him like he hurt you. Getting revenge doesn't change what happened to you. Learn from it and go out with single men that are available thus insuring it wont happen in the future.
2007-01-15 19:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any broken heart hurts. But, you must move on. Revenge is not the answer and will only prolong your hurt. A lot of men that are married will tell you anything and make it sound real. Go slow the next time and dont give your feelings unless you are sure. There are a lot of fish in the sea. Good Luck
2007-01-15 19:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has used you, learn from it and move on. Arranged or not he was in a marriage. His disregard for his wife showed who he truly was.
Move on, don't let your happiness depend upon someone else. You will never find true happiness by expecting it from another person.
2007-01-17 02:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate men that cheat on there wife's. My dad cheated on my mother. Tell his wife that he has cheated and leave the rest to her. Who knows how many people he cheat with better get tested. Don't date married men because if they cheat on there wifes you know he is cheating on you.
2007-01-21 15:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch a broken heart sucks beyond belief...no revenge..that is mean and it will not heal your broken heart...be sure to leave the married men alone...there are plenty of men...don't hurt your sisterhood of women by stooping so low to be with another womans husband.
2007-01-15 19:11:16 · answer #5 · answered by Olive 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋