How do I meet with someone in our dreams?

Question

My new boyfriend wants me to meet him at a specific place (a campfire by a dark calm ocean) in our dreams. This is VERY important to him and I have been able to make it to the beach in a hypnogogic state, but then I lose the vision when I enter a full dream state. Any suggestions?

Answer 1

I notice you say in "our" dreams. You do realize that unless you have developed some sort of brain networking system, the two of you will not actually be interacting. It will be two completely different dreams; one in your mind, one in his.

Answer 2

I did a class on altered states of consciousness, and when we spoke about dreams and the hypnogogic state and transfering it into a lucid dreamlike state - something that was very important was that we tend to lose focus and "fall asleep" hence loosing the lucidity of the dream. Maybe if you continue trying everynight then it could happen, I think that at one point in time you lost focus and hence you lost the train of thought - seems odd I know because you feel like you didn't, but I've tried it before to see if inducing dreams could actually happen and i realised that after a while i just didn't think about what i wanted to induce anymore, and then nothing happened. So continue trying and focus on one aspect of the dream instead of a whole situation , like focus on the campfire instead of the whole scene maybe that would help in inducing the exact scene that you're looking for.

Hope that helps!

Answer 3

I believe that's a skill like just about any other. The key is practice. I'm not usually aware that I'm dreaming while I'm dreaming. Yet, there's usually pretty good evidence of it in the dream. During my last dream, I dreamed I was living in an apartment, but I'm not. I live in a house.

It's probably a matter of practicing becoming aware that you're dreaming. You might be able to train your mind to respond in a certain way while you're dreaming by forming an association in your mind with dreaming and a concrete stimulus like an image or a word. If you can get that association strong enough, it might come up on its own in the dream and then you might become aware that you're dreaming.

Answer 4

I like Micheypoo's answer.

Using her input as a springboard my suggestion would be to daydream it!! You can totally control that. What's more you two can do that together. You could try it first saying nothing, just holding hands or hugging. Then you could start your daydream together, talking each other through it, adding and building it together. How awesome!! As the one person said, the other way your dreams would be separate, this way you have it together. But be prepared for some fireworks, because I would assume things may get ... a bit warm.

Answer 5

Will you just get Lost. That place belong to me and I am sick and tired of wiping off your vision all the time.

I need to spent a little time with your boyfriend in our dreams and is that too much for you???

Can't you let your boyfriend enjoy a little gay time since he has always been with you like 24/7!!

Answer 6

Are you serious? Either your new boyfriend is either nuts, on drugs, or extremely cheap. A date on the beach in your dreams? Tell him you'd prefer to meet him at a REAL campfire on a REAL beach by a REAL ocean. Or just get a real boyfriend.

Answer 7

lady come on earth . had this been possible the Americans would have by now been selling pills saying ...this one for the beach , oh this one ...orange flavour for the pub rendez vous , this one for royal rendez vous!

plz get real ! and enjoy ur life in the real sense...u r wasting a life time in the impossible...

i hope the time you get to realise that you dont lack time to enjoy it in the real sense!!!!

Answer 8

I wish I could control my dreams too

Answer 9

just think of the place you want to go , while u go to ur bed .go to seep wondering about that place!