Because it seems to me that nice guys ultimately finish last and they always end up getting F*CKED!! (not literally either). and that women prefer the as*shole type.
2007-01-15 18:06:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
My ideal man is nice - sweet and affectionate to me - but also flirtatious and seductive. I think the mistake "nice guys" make is to show their kind side, which is beautiful, but to NOT show their sexy, seductive side; that is when we pass you over for a more "exciting guy." We need both sides! Just being honest...
2007-01-15 18:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by F 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The complicated solution is that women are attracted to self confidence and a guy who is not completely interested in them. They want to be chased by someone who's not interested in them. Confusing.
But one easy way around all of the confusion is to act like a jerk. At least for a little while. And only act. Don't ever actually do anything bad, like cheating, or rape or anything like that.
Just be cocky and funny, crack some light jokes about the girl. The key is to show that you're not afraid of her, and aren't desperately seeking approval. Girls hate a guy who will very obviously be a doormat right out of the gate. There's no challenge with guys like this.
2007-01-16 02:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by joecool123_us 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Only with the desirabel ones. Aggressive behaviour is an indicator for a guys fertility. Just look at the animal world, it is the winner of the fight that gets to have the girl. But dont overdo it. Slapping yes, punching no.
2007-01-16 12:28:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have seen battered women repeatedly find guy after guy who hits them. I have never seen a woman move from one sweet doormat to the next in this fashion. I attracted way more girls when I had piercings and tattoos and worked at a nightclub, touching sluts
2007-01-16 10:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of men like to be the big guy and act tough, and women like that. There are a lot of guys out there who are kind and gentle, and women like that too. It depends on the type of woman you choose to date. You'll just have to try out different personalities to see which type clicks with yours.
2007-01-16 02:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Possibly in certain industries. But in the manner you are speaking of, I would say no. Most of us, male and female, have a few bad relationships where we were handed the dirty end of the stick.
I prefer not to hang out with people that are rude and crude to others.
2007-01-16 02:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by soozemusic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's smooth and easy and sometime it's RUFF. Most of the time it's smooth -n- easy.As long as you treat a woman with love and respect you can never go wrong. Just make them laugh often and give it RUFF sometimes .
2007-01-16 12:10:47 · answer #7 · answered by raka1027 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you actually have that a little backwards. Guys that are attractive to women BECOME buttholes because their egos are inflated.
"Nice" guys are generally less assertive and some women aren't attracted to that. They're also more likely to be taken advantage of by women who know they CAN take advantage of them.
2007-01-16 05:27:38 · answer #8 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Now, which asshole told you that???? Why not be an asshole with a man. I know many such men and infact, men are the ones who need that kind of treatment more often.
Of course, I am a man but not biased towards the other sex. We must respect women for being so kind to the mankind as they are the ones who are carrying the future in their wombs and are greatly responsible for keeping the human race growing.
2007-01-16 02:16:08 · answer #9 · answered by AB2874 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Some girls like jerks but the rest of us like nice guys. I know that some of us ladies have picked jerks in the past but that was because we didn't value ourselves the way we do now.
2007-01-16 03:58:13 · answer #10 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋